And other statements that show that you have no comprehension of life or the power of manifesting.
My entire life I have dealt with people telling me something.
And thinking that they have it worse or better than I do.
The reality is that no matter where you are at in life,
there will ALWAYS be someone in worse shoes,
and someone in better shoes,
You cannot go through life concerned about other people’s shoes.
But to look at another person’s situation and use it to show WHY YOU CANNOT do what you need is crazy AF!
Yet this is a common occurrence.
Every week I work with people who come and sit down with me for coaching,
they tell me their tough stories on how they got to where they are at,
they paint pictures of suffering, fear and anxiety.
They paint pictures of how hard life is.
And how much they hope for.
They tell me their grand faith and love they have,
about their desires and dreams.
They affirm a strong commitment.
“Yeah, but how long is this going to take?”
“You just don’t understand, I have kids and a corporate job. I don’t have the time or the energy. I am exhausted.”
And they say this as though they should get some medal for living an exhausting life.
They believe that this is just how success is.
How life is.
and what is to be expected.
They also assume that the anxiety, depression, frustration and constriction…
the sacrificing of their dreams and selves is what a smart, responsible person should do.
NOTHING could be farther from the truth though.
This way of thinking and feeling holds you in a scarcity mindset and thus keeps you living a life of poverty. You may have money, but if you are exhausted and empty you are actually POOR AF.
As Brene Brown would say,
“It takes courage to say yes to rest and play in a culture where exhaustion is seen as a status symbol.”
And exhaustion leads you to anxiety.
It leads you to depression and hopelessness.
Exhaustion creates a massive void in who you are.
It is no status symbol,
it is a premature death sentence,
and you don’t have to be 6 feet under to be dead baby.
What you get is an UNLIVED LIFE.
Just think about that one for a second if you have the mental focus to do such after this long ass day.
Are you among the norm out there of this world?
Like most people who have two lives…
The one you are living and the one you keep denying?
The Unlived Life.
The reality is babe…
YOU GET TO CHOOSE.
The reason I have the energy and vitality for the life that I am creating is simply because I have chosen to LIVE not just get by and exist.
I have had years,
even a decade or two that I chose otherwise and that shiz almost killed me.
My SOUL was like WTF! We are outta here if you keep this shiz up girl.
And I had to CHOOSE LIFE.
Or say goodbye.
Sure I work for myself,
I make my own schedule,
I decide my value in my fee’s.
I have no thumb on me.
I have freedom and flexibility.
And with all of that comes responsibility.
I choose to focus on what I want to create and therefore it gets created.
A long time ago I said that I wanted to be a full time mommy.
That I did not want my children to have to go to daycare and be raised by someone else.
I also said that I wanted to provide home cooked meals for my children 80-90% of the time.
I also said that I valued dating my children, all 7 of them.
Spending 1:1 time with them.
I also said that I wanted to take them on experiences,
to adventure together, to laugh, read, play…
And that I wanted this frequently.
Now on the other side of things I said that I wanted to make a multi-six figure income.
That I wanted to build an empire.
I wanted to teach masses of people.
I wanted to work with the 1%.
I said that I wanted to look good and feel great as I age.
I said that I wanted to be healthy.
That I wanted to travel – A LOT.
I said that I wanted all of it and desired for more.
Knowing that my desires would grow as I created more and more of the life that I wanted.
I share this with you to make the point that I get busy.
It’s all part of the picture.
And being center hub for a bunch of people can be EXHAUSTING…
The thing is that any of us can have a truly amazing, fulling life if we DECIDE to actually commit to LIVING.
This means to put the focus not on always working,
not making all those bills and creditors,
your boss or employee’s,
the football game or candy crush,
more important than your Mother-effing Life!
Because that is just being average and ordinary.
And you are NOT THAT LUV!
You are EXTRAORDINARY.
So Own It!
And Live accordingly.
Are you living in alignment to WHO YOU REALLY ARE?
Or are you settling for something less than…
Stop Existing & Start Living
“Coaching for Grown A*s Believers”
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