For years I had no clue what that even meant.
I did not think of life, let alone my goals in terms of pleasure.
I mean you live,
you captivate a few precious moments,
and you put your head down and do what you need to do.
That is how I was raised.
I was raised to believe that you must put EVERYTHING in front of yourself,
and for sure not focus on what felt good or turned you on.
That way of living was for whores, addicts and the not so responsible people who were selfish and immature.
Fast forward through a 20 year marriage,
the loss of houses, jobs and a bunch of debt,
the raising of at that time five children,
then a divorce,
a new relationship plus two more babies plus a bunch of other struggles and more stress,
and you find me believing another way.
That idea of pleasure is something now that I realize is a more accurate way of living and it is what God actually intended for us to live in.
Not the saga of suffering and loss.
Not the not having of our dreams and desires.
When we study the quantum field,
we learn that life moves with ease.
It is about getting into the flow of life,
the flow of soul.
And we do this with this thing called pleasure.
When we are allowing ourselves to receive pleasure we increase our vibration and we open up to the potential of miracles.
You have to realize that what you want, wants you too.
But it will not change it’s vibration to get you.
That is what your work is.
To increase your vibration and allow life to serve up your dreams to you.
AKA SOUL GOALS.
Think about it…
When you feel passionate about something,
when you feel those butterflies in your tummy,
when you feel turned on by something,
you are craving it.
But what are you actually craving?
Is it, it or is it the pleasure that it provides you?
It’s the pleasure baby.
You want whatever you want for how it makes you feel.
The feeling of something is the ONLY reason we go after it.
And what we are wanting is happiness.
Connection. Love. Intimacy. Joy.
All of these things equal pleasure.
It’s a different sort of pleasure though,
its SOUL based.
It comes from our SOUL not from the EGO.
The ego wants to experience pleasure to hide us from our truth and power.
The ego wants to enjoy pleasure to mask our short falls instead of focus us on our path.
The ego uses negative forms,
very 2D-3D forms of pleasure to derail us from success.
But why would the ego do this you may wonder?
Ego is trying to protect us.
It does have a purpose.
And that is a purpose of protection,
it is fear based.
And anything that is based in fear is not from the SOUL,
and not from God/Universe.
It is out of flow and it is a low vibration.
The ego does what it does because it fears change.
Change means transformation.
Change means expansion.
Change means growth.
And change can mean increased vibration.
But as your vibration grow’s so does your determination to remain in this thing called flow.
Because is FEELS SO DAMN GOOD.
And miracles happen here.
You think about something,
you feel how good it is,
you focus in on gratitude for being already in the flow that you are and BAM! you are given more to support that feeling.
But here is the thing that YOU MUST understand BABY.
And I want you to really pay attention to this.
Your goals can only manifest up to your pleasure threshold.
So if you are not yet manifesting like MOFO BOSS,
then look at how much pleasure you are allowing into your life experience.
Look at where you are denying yourself the simple joys,
where are you holding yourself back by continuing to buy into the bullsh*t concept that you are to suffer for a time frame in order to achieve your dreams.
You will be required to step the f-ck out of your comfort zone.
You will be required to make changes.
To transform and level up.
You will be required to break old habits and beliefs.
You will never be able to achieve that desired life you want in the same old shoes you have been walking this path so far.
And that will most likely scare the sh*t out of you BABY.
It may even feel too difficult.
It may even feel bad at points,
and you may “think” that is its painful to make these changes and build these muscles.
But if you don’t do the inner training,
if you don’t look into those shadows of self,
if you don’t learn to level up and get into flow,
then you cannot have what you want with ease.
You will STRUGGLE or you will SETTLE.
Either way it will not be in PLEASURE.
And that threshold will hold right where it is or even shrink.
The choice though is always yours.
I know that you are worthy of your dreams and living a high vibe pleasure threshold.
God does not make unworthy things.
and YOU BABY, are WORTHY.
Level Up Your Pleasure Threshold – Level Up Your Life.
And As Always,
Stop Existing & Start Living
“Coaching for Grown A*s Believers”