Only the divine masculine can hold space for a relationship with the divine feminine.
You say that you desire a relationship with a woman.
A woman who knows herself.
A woman who is passionate, turned on and comfortable in her own skin.
You say that you want a woman who will honor and respect you.
You say that you want a woman who is loyal.
A good mother.
A partner in life.
A woman who loves deep,
You say so much dear man.
But what you must realize,
is that this sort of woman that you claim that you desire,
that you state you are holding out for,
that you are searching all the corners of your world for and just cannot seem to find…
Yes this woman.
She will DEMAND the same from you.
She will push your boundaries.
She will command your heart.
She will devour you if you are weak.
She will not settle for anything less than what she wants in a her man.
And this woman.
This woman want a MAN.
Not just any man.
She is strong in herself.
She does not need you to THRIVE or even to survive.
She is comfortable with being alone.
She knows her goals,
knows her heart,
KNOWS HER WORTH.🙌
If you come to her with your school boy ways,
if you come to her with ideas that your manhood is based in your pants or in your bank account,
she may play with you for a bit…💃
she may enjoy the offerings of your services,
but if you do not bring to her the true fruit that she desires and deserves then she will cast you out of her world and continue her pursuit.
This woman that you claim that you have been searching for,
that you have yourself believing is hard to find,
may be sitting right beside you as you read these very words.
But in order to unmask her,
you must be willing.
You must be strong.
You must be in truth of who you are.
Do you know your PURPOSE?
Can you embrace your HEART?
Will you drop your SHIELD?
Will you walk with the stance of a KING?
Or will you continue to cower to this life?
The divine masculine is a masculine on FIRE!🔥🔥🔥
Passionate, Turned On to Life, Fierce, Playful, Confident, Present and On Purpose.
To embrace her you must embody these.
Or let yourself wonder in the jungle of the lost,
who will continue to look for what they will never qualify to call in.
But in turn settle for the false relationships,
the heated moments,
the fleeting pleasures of illusion.
The divine masculine KNOWS that to have this woman that his SOUL craves,
he must first LEAD himself to his path,
and walk it in strength,
and with enthusiasm of what he will discover within himself.
The way to this woman’s heart,
is through your own.
The reveal of your DIVINE MASCULINE,
the answers to your questions,
the desire of having her,
the search of what you want.
Yes sweet man,
until YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE…
until YOU FIND YOUR COURAGE…
until YOU BECOME A LEADER…
until YOU KNOW THE POWER OF YOUR HEART…
You will never entertain her.
For this woman,
she is wild,
free and on purpose.
And only a REAL MAN will dance with her. 💃💃💃
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The leap of faith.
The leap of inspired action.
The leap of true love.
That is what we crave.
That is what we want.
That is what we fear.
When we leap, we also risk.
And there is this feeling that we could die.
This feeling of jumping out of a plane,
into the unknown,
and we question if our shoot will open,
or worse yet if we remembered to put our shoot on even.
So we focus on all that could go wrong.
We focus on all that is not happening.
We look at the evidence,
and we get caught up in the strings of what is not even reality.
Talk a big game.
Speak of soul alignment.
Say that we have prayed about it.
Share our faith about our success with everyone we can.
But internally, we are anxious.
And full of doubt.
We can taste the joy of our success.
We can feel the excitement of FINALLY having what we want to manifest so bad,
but that damn little voice in our head,
that voice that wants to sabotage us.
Alright, alright, I hear you.
I get it.
I am stupid.
I am ugly.
I am not worthy.
I an pathetic.
I am a bad person.
I don’t know what to do.
And we weep.
We shake in fear of all the crap that we feed ourselves.
We are sure to fail.
We must try.
We owe it to ourselves.
To our loved ones.
We want so badly to prove that we are worthy.
And so we listen to a guru.
We sign up for a program.
We get serious!
We put our head down,
and we get to work.
Yes we must write down our goals.
We must focus on our weak muscles and build them stronger by knowing our weakness.
And overcoming it.
We must get up earlier.
Stay up later.
Do everything that feels forced, scary, and hard.
We must MAKE IT HAPPEN!!!!
And so we struggle a bit longer.
And we prove to ourselves how undeserving and stupid we are.
How success is not meant for us.
We look out into the world and we see everyone doing so great,
but we fully understand that we don’t have the skills to make it happen.
So we lower our heads.
We take our loss.
And we put the ball down on what we are so called too.
We turn away from our dreams.
And we make excuses.
Yes here is where so many people are RIGHT NOW.
As I sit here a third of the way through the first month of the new year, I see so many of you beautiful people struggling.
Companies are laying off.
Pink slips are hitting so many people without any fair warning.
The government is under challenges.
Causing issues with our taxes,
causing issues with our mail,
with so many things.
We have come through the joy and stress of the holidays,
we have hopes and goals for the new year,
and we are loosing focus already.
I hear so many speaking about what they cannot have.
Settling already for another year of the SAME.
But there is no FAITH in this.
There is no GROWTH in this.
There is no JOY/HAPPINESS in this.
And there is for sure no SOUL in this.
No your soul my love,
has all the certainty that you need to make your dreams come true.
All you need do is get in alignment to it and STOP focusing on what is not happening.
Don’t turn away from your dreams.
Don’t get discouraged about what you want that is not happening.
FOCUS on what you do have.
Focus on the joy, love, good stuff that IS in your world.
Even if it is just a small little moment.
Lean into it love.
Here is the doorway to your greatness.
Calm your mind each day.
Make space for SOUL to speak to you.
Make time for yourself to connect to God.
Soul alignment ONLY comes from creating a space of stillness and listening.
Here is where you GAIN EVERYTHING.
And when you hear the call,
you feel the turn on.
Then you can LEAP with Inspired Guidance and take Inspired Action.
Here is where you will discover that as you take your focus off of all that you think you should be doing,
and you simply create space for it to happen,
that is will just manifest with ease and speed.
A focus on feeling good.
Change your focus.
Change your life.
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God is living vicariously through YOU!
Yes you read that right.
God is living out what God cannot do on his own.
He needs YOU to do it for him.
But look at this thing called life.
It is all about experience.
It is all about learning.
Life is a beautiful gift.
And it is a gift that has been given for us to enjoy to the fullest.
On top of it we have all the power.
It is called FREE WILL.
What an amazing gift.
And you know what else?
It was given so that we can experience and expand to our greatest levels just like God does.
God is everywhere.
God is within everything.
The conscious creator of all.
But the ONE thing God cannot do,
is LIVE as a human.
Which means God cannot experience like a human.
And God wants glory.
God wants love.
God wants respect.
God wants joy.
God wants our rapture.
Just like a lover,
God want to bask in our beauty.
And therefore God wants to feel our full expression in everything that we do.
You want to give God glory?
You want to show your worth?
You want to show God how deeply you love him?
You want to show your FAITH?
Well the best way to accomplish any and all of these,
is to fully turn yourself over to the mystery.
Let GO and LET God.
This is where FAITH is shown.
Live unbound and to your fullest,
this is where you show God’s glory.
Live in complete unconditional love,
for self, for life, for everyone,
this is where respect and love come from.
It is called integrity my sweet.
Fall in love.
Allow abundance and blessing to wash all over you.
Because God is counting on you.
God wants to FEEL all of these mysteries.
But he needs YOU to open up and let HIS GREATNESS move through you.
You are not doing anyone any favors by playing small.
Seriously, how is always accepting less,
always saying no to your heart and soul,
always turning away from yourself,
serving YOU OR GOD?
Let imagine if Jesus turned away from himself.
Turned away from God.
Lets imagine if Jesus coward in the face of his own greatness,
which he KNEW was all God’s.
Lets imagine Jesus being small.
That’s just silliness,
He took on the weight of everything.
And he did it in JOY.
He did it by revealing unconditional love.
He walked in FAITH.
And he let his fathers GLORY be witnessed by all.
He did this by letting his light SHINE.
He did it by letting God work through him.
Because even the son of God,
had to open himself to the mysteries of God.
Had to open himself to the POWER of God.
And what was the message he left us with my love?
“I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” – John 14:6
The message is clear no matter your faith.
If nothing else, Jesus was a man of leadership and deep understanding of the ways of God.
He was on the mission to reveal the truth.
And he stood in the power that he had been given.
He let his light shine.
And he has made it into our history and spiritual beliefs for over 2000 years because of his teachings.
So why not LISTEN?
Why not stand in your own RIGHT.
In your own POWER.
And Let God move through you.
Let his glory be seen,
by living your life UNBOUND.
Because God is counting on YOU my love.
God wants to experience this thing called LIFE,
but he does not want to just get through it….
He want’s to THRIVE in ABUNDANCE.
He wants the JOY,
So stop effing around already.
Stop living in shame and misery.
You have all that you need on your side love.
Just LET GO.
Leap into the arms of the greatest lover of all.
Leap and let God catch you.
He wants to feel your rapture.
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“Coaching for Grown A*s Believers”
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Stop with all your excuses.
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It is one of those days.
One of those days where I find myself wrapped in a cover of doubt. Fear. Overwhelm. Exhaustion.
Uncertainty knocking at my door,
Screaming at me that I will fail.
Screaming at me that there is no f*cking way that I can do this.
Can have this.
Can be this.
My ego parading around in my head taking front row center stage, announcing its victory of kicking me while it perceives I should be down.
It woke me numerous times last night to tell me how shitty I was. To share with me its concerns and fears. To announce to me how everything that I wanted I could not have and how I was not good enough to have it.
God bless my ego.
Standing in the shower just moments ago, I found myself being taken on another ego trip.
Feeling like I was scrooge being drug through my life of what had happened, what was happening and what would be.
My ego painted nothing but the most gloomy of pictures.
Assuring me that this was sure to happen.
Telling me that my life would NEVER be what I wanted.
I was for certain not to be HAPPY.
Not to find true LOVE.
Not to HEAL.
Physically or emotionally.
Not to LIVE UNBOUND, full and free.
Telling me that the F*ck Yes! Life that I prescribe too,
and have been living,
was all a figment of my imagination.
God Bless my ego.
Yes it shared with me that ADVENTURE was gone for this lifetime. Only work, work, and more work was in my future.
Yes it shared with me that PLAY was not to be had. Instead it is time to put on my BIG GIRL pants and get serious and STOP desiring play, fun, joy, and bliss.
Yes it shared with me that LOVE was nothing to desire. It does not exist. No one will ever love me. Will ever honor me. Will ever hold space for me. Will ever see me. No, this man does not exist. My SOUL MATCH does not exist. He is a figment of my imagination. I will have to just SETTLE for meeting fragments of him in other men and make due with what I get.
Yes my ego shared that I was stupid.
That I was unhealthy.
That my body now was f*cked up and ugly.
That I looked old, tired, worn out and should just settle for the reality that my light had been squished.
My wings clipped.
Yes it shared that my words, my truth, my message was unwanted and not needed. That it to was stupid, not good enough and silly.
God Bless my ego.
This morning my ego has had a Raging Dance Party in my psyche.
It has been shacking its booty in my face,
Rubbing itself up and down my sides like a horny, drunk person.
It has been pointing its fingers and laughing at my dreams and desires.
It has been taunting me, seducing me and scaring me.
It has been lude, crude and tempting.
It makes its case like the best attorney in court.
Showing evidence of my lack of worthiness.
My lack of FAITH.
Showing me how BAD I have been in life and how I deserve to FAIL.
Yes, my ego.
God Bless my ego.
And F*CK MY EGO!!!!
I watch it dance before me. I hear its serenade.
Is that a life of EGO is NO LIFE AT ALL.
I know the wolf that is underneath that cloak.
It hungers for my life.
It craves to steal my breath.
It craves to steal my LIGHT.
It tells me my wings are clipped when in FACT my wings are stretched out so far I cannot see their tips.
It tells me I cannot FLY.
That God will not carry me.
My SOUL KNOWS different.
My HEART is CERTAIN of different.
I do not have to look far to SEE the TRUTH.
My TRUTH, that is all around me.
Comes through my words.
Through my messages.
Through my energy.
Through the light in my eye’s.
that comes through the messages that my TRIBE shares with me.
The vulnerability of not just my expression but that of those I connect with, share with and hold space for.
Yes, my truth.
God Bless my truth.
I will NEVER STOP.
I will NEVER STOP.
The ego will try and strip us of our life.
It will try and scare us into submission.
It has tactics that make us feel like we should do this or that.
It will tell us how to be a good person.
It will tell us this is what God wants from you.
It will make us prideful and strip us of our pride all in the same sentence.
None of which is coming from God or our soul.
F*ck the EGO and it’s satanic ways of making us fear LIVING.
F*ck the EGO for attempting to steal our lives and dreams.
I don’t know about you,
But I can tell you that I for one REFUSE to let the EGO LIVE MY LIFE.
This life is mine to live.
This breath is mine to breathe.
This heart is mine to share.
I am Claiming My Life.
Will You Claim Your’s?
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My body slowly let go of it’s need to control and prove itself and just accepted it’s GREATNESS.
What I do know is that I ALWAYS made it through.
I ALWAYS pushed through (pun intended).
And at the day, I got to meet a beautiful new little human.
And more importantly, they had introduced me to my SOUL.
We were built to RISK.
The point is, that YOU were BORN for GREATNESS.
So WAKE THE F*CK UP!
And Remember to Stop Existing & Start Living.
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It’s My Why.
Everyone need’s a why to make BIG changes and find the courage needed to do the things that we really desire deep down to do.
If you are an entrepreneur then a question that often get’s asked is just that,
‘What’s your why?”
Your why has to be strong enough to get you through the discomfort,
The uncomfortable changes,
and the failures.
Yep the WHY has to be so strong that it forces you to BREATHE deep into your full capacity of BECOMING.
The why has to embody you.
It has to capture your heart.
And make you MOVE your ASS.
Without a strong why, then one just gives up.
We are more likely to allow life to over throw us and to steal our dreams.
On day’s like TODAY, I am reminded how lucky I am to have the WHY that I do.
I know that I am BLESSED.
My WHY is my children.
They are my HOME TEAM.
I know that many parents say that their why is their family.
And I am sure that it is.
It is a marvelous why to have.
Looking into the eye’s of your children and knowing that the reason you dare step out of your comfort zone and go against the grain of society, because the last thing you would ever want for them to do was to be, do or have a life that they were not fully turned on too or in love with.
Moment’s of laughter and joy with my kids make me grateful that I am among the lucky one’s who have chosen to create their own LUCK and not accept the bullsh*t structures of a life that is dictated to me, but a life that allows me to be present with my children, spend as much time as I want with them and be able to be there for the REALLY IMPORTANT moments.
Because the important moments are not just the school awards and graduations, or the sports tournaments or choir state finals.
The important moments are the one’s where a child just needs a shoulder to cry on, a hug at the end of a rough day, a ear that can just listen, or some good laughs in the most unexpected times.
Every time I get to listen at midnight to my 18 year old son sit and share with me conspiracy theory thoughts and as he call’s it “geek talk,” I find myself smiling at my WHY.
Every time my 15 year old daughter casually shares with me her private life and asks permission to rebel, and we laugh about the fact that she is rebelling but asking for permission, I find myself smiling at my WHY.
Every time I go for frappuccino’s with my 12 year old son and he smiles and run’s to get the door for me as he is sharing his deep thoughts on world history or science, I find myself smiling at my WHY.
Every time I find myself being asked to throw water on the trampoline as my 5 year old son bounces happily naked as a jay bird and say’s, “Thank you madriella’s.” as he squeals with delight, I find myself smiling at my WHY.
Every time my 3 year old son, bats his big blue eye’s at me and throw’s his arms open wide as I am leaving to go to a client appointment or get on a coaching call, then pushes out his bottom lip and says, “Kissies, huggies.” I smile at my WHY.
Every time my 21 year old daughter, post’s some of her amazing photography work or breaks down and share’s a deep intimacy about what is troubling her and how hard adulting is, I smile at my WHY.
Every time my 22 year old daughter stands strong as the woman that she is, not letting the world bully her but instead commanding from it what she know’s she is worth and not letting go of her dream’s or who she TRULY is, I smile at my WHY.
Yes, this is my WHY.
This is my HOME TEAM.
I have been BLESSED to have had a Home Team since I was 19 in my life. Although, I would not recommend motherhood at a young age for most, perhaps not even for myself, as I had much growing up to do when my eldest was born. I would not change a moment of my life as the mother to these 7 soul’s.
My WHY is not to bless these soul’s with more money, a bigger house or better car’s. My why is not to show them what a responsible adult does and lives like. My why is not to show them that you sacrifice the life that longs to be lived inside you for the life that you are handed from your outside influences.
My WHY, is to show my HOME TEAM who has supported me through the toughest of days, through home losses, relationship break ups, health issues, rape and even miscarriage and more.
That, living a courageous life,
A Life on Purpose.
A life unappologetically and true
is what living is about.
Life may blow it’s scary storms around you, but if you stand strong like a mountain it will not destroy you.
The storm of life can whip around and feel like it might over take you, it may have you consider sacrificing your heart and soul, but when you have a strong enough WHY you can bend as needed but not break like a willow tree.
My WHY is to see my children stand strong in who they truly are.
To be able to provide them with the support that they have given me and more.
My WHY is let them feel what unconditional love and acceptance really is.
My WHY is to show them a world that is here for them to enjoy.
My WHY is to show them that you can have YOUR DREAMS and still have your FAMILY.
My WHY is to ALWAYS show them that by just being YOU, that it is enough.
My WHY is to show them that we are each the CREATOR’S of our own destiny. That we are NOT victim’s to chance or fate, but that have FREE WILL and free will is the most powerful force when blended with self-love.
It will literally give you wings of courage to stand the storm of life and not just FLY above the clouds like and eagle, but to fly all the way into the heaven’s and find the peace, strength courage and guidance of God.
Yes, this is my WHY.
As any other mother on this planet would say.
My babies are my world, my delight and my WHY.
That is why I REFUSE to settle for AVERAGE & ORDINARY.
That is why I REFUSE to not listen to the call of my soul.
That is why I REFUSE to have my life dictated to me by the way’s of this world.
That is why I REFUSE to believe anything other than I was meant to live a F*ck YES! Life.
Just like my HOME TEAM was.
Just like YOU are too.
What is your WHY?
Stop Existing & Start Living!
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What a lovely trip to Boca Raton Florida I had this last week. It is trips like this one that just make my heart smile. Having the privilege to work with a dynamic couple, enjoy connection, conversation, good food and being able to share powerful teachings with such high consciousness souls… THIS, this is a F*CK YES!
People ask me all the time what I do for work…
You know here is the truth.
I DON’T WORK.
I get to share.
I get to just be me and share the knowledge and gifts that I have been given and learned how to tap into through the last 20+ years of my life.
And I get to do this with people I truly adore.
Many days, I feel like I am playing.
Many days I feel like if someone actually “caught” me in my work they would wonder what the hell I am doing.
Because enjoying life this much and doing the things that one loves DAILY, is not understood in our world.
But is most certainly, the GOAL I believe for many.
And it is our God given right as well.
The freedom and bliss that we can have in doing our true work far passes anything that is just paying the bills and causing our heads to ache and our muscles to constrict from the stress.
No, doing your life’s calling is WHERE IT IS AT BABY!
This is what my week has been about.
Sure it had it’s sexy moments.
It had it’s heart pounding, tear jerking, stomach clenching moments.
But ALL of the moments were PRESENT MOMENTS.
They were captured in love.
And I was HONORED to be the one to do the “work” with these beautiful souls.
Honored to spend another week of my life LIVING my WORK, not just SURVIVING my week.
Can you say the same for your week?
I ask you this not to flaunt anything but to get you to ask a VERY important question about your life and where you are at in it.
Have you considered why you are settling for less than what God’s wish for your life is?
How does this question make you feel in your body when you read it?
Do you even know what greatness God desires for your life?
And how the heck can you figure out what this greatness is and how you can achieve it?
I promise you this…
This greatness is NOT about just existing and paying your bills, fulfilling your duties and being a “good” person. It is not about waking up Monday morning and dreading your day and week or looking at Friday with a “Oh, Thank Goodness.” No this is NOT living folks.
If you want to live that F*ck YES! Life, that is freedom based and full of desire and purpose then all you need do is to question your own heart. Truly just tap in and start to feel what resides as your hearts desire.
Many great visionaries, teachers and leaders through the course of time have told us to “follow our hearts, they will not lead us astray” yet we consistently allow our minds logic to rule over our hearts and find ourselves off of our true paths and living a life of duty, stress, and endless fatigue. We walk through our days and weeks like we are zombies and we wonder where passion for anything has gone.
If you are wanting to find your passion, your desire for life and the direction that God wants for you then it is up to no one but YOU.
Ask, Seek, Knock.
These words they stir a lot of fascination, desire and confusion for us humans. What does it mean to ask, seek and knock? Whom are we asking? God? How will he answer? How will we hear? This is the main question of concern because until we learn how to listen we cannot find direction in our lives. We simply are walking through our world blind. To ask and be able to listen, one must prepare themselves for the communication. This simply put means that YOU must make a commitment to find STILLNESS in your life and then eagerly and with expectation look for the answers to come to you. You MUST remain CONSCIOUS and listen with an active heart which will incorporate your thoughts, feelings, sight, hearing and experiences for the response from the Divine. If you ask and then go directly into your chaotic thoughts focused on your past experiences and fear based thinking then you will miss your messages and be lost.
How do you feel about spending 15 minutes a day in silence with yourself?
Does this seem like too big of a chore? Or are you hungry to listen to the path that is before you?
If you are hungry then the ONLY work you need ever do is to ASK and then LISTEN. You will be guided with ease and grace to your desired life. You were born for greatness and not for struggle. The reason we struggle is because we argue and try to control with our logical minds a force that is far greater than ourselves.
Stop handcuffing God.
You too can have a freedom based life. You were born to be free and to live a purposeful, desire based life full of blessing. If you fill yourself up with un-needed chaos, fear and worry then you prevent this life from manifesting for you and in turn you curse yourself with AVERAGE and ORDINARY. You curse yourself through your inability to SAY YES to your hearts desire and to the promise of God.
Ask and it shall be given.
God always say’s yes to us. It is our sabotaging ways that block the blessings from forming in this reality. Our doubt is the true culprit to our suffering.
And you know what will take much of your suffering away?
CERTAINTY in your heart.
CERTAINTY in your purpose.
CERTAINTY in your faith.
And Most CERTAINLY doing your life’s calling is WHERE IT IS AT BABY!
Dig in deep and find yours now.
You deserve to live on PURPOSE and FULFILLED.
This sort of work is pleasure.
What’s Your pleasure?
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“The ONLY place you need to be – is in your magic zone. We all have a magic zone. We all use our zone. All the time. The trick is being conscious to what we are creating and making sure that our magic zone is being used for all the bliss, joy, play and abundance it was intended instead of the suffering, fear, destruction and chaos so many of us choose to use it for. — What are you creating?” – KW
Be Your Full Potential This Coming Year!
Here we sit yet once again at the end of one year and the ushering into another. You would think that the whole world would be truly celebrating that we as a world society get to move forward into the next arena of life on this planet. You would think that each and every soul on this planet including yourself would be ecstatic with joy and hope for the new year and all it has to offer. After all new years is all about getting a fresh start. Having learned what we needed from the past year we can now move forward with an excitement and expectation of greatness. However it is more common for for us to be experiencing pain, suffering, fear, anger, remorse and almost a desire for this time to not move forward but to somehow reset to the beginning of the current year so that we can travel through it with 20/20 vision and make different choices, see things differently, and act differently.
For more than 80%of the population we may have a desire to make this new year one of all our dreams coming true, or at very least sticking to most of our goals and making some positive life changes so that we can feel accomplished at the end of the day and year. We desire that the feelings we are having and trying to ignore through too much alcohol, food, partying and random excessive entertainment with games and television, we desire not to ignore these feelings but to simply NOT have them to begin with. Therefore we desire CHANGE. Transformation.
There are so many people in my life that I know are experiencing these sensations. I have seen people go through divorce this years end, have been served papers for it or finished a long process with it. Many uncertain as to the standings of their relationship status. I have seen many people loose their jobs, their homes, cars. Not have enough food on their tables for nightly dinner. There are many who I know who are dealing with death this season in one way or another and even some that have been diagnosed with a terminal illness and find themselves feeling like they NOW don’t have the time to give and share all that they thought they were going to be able too. I have seen people question their purpose all year long. I have seen people try and make their purpose their relationship. I have seen people dig and get mad to the point of quitting because they have no clue what to do with what is surfacing and they have no idea how the things coming up serve them healing what they had originally set out to work on.
I have also seen many people discover love. Purpose. Direction.
Everything that I have seen has NOTHING to do with what we choose to typically focus on at this time of the year. That being how many presents we got or gave, or the deal we got or even the president of the USA. None of the things that truly matter are the things that our media or lifestyles has us focusing on.
The things that matter are REALLY SIMPLE.
The bottom line for every human being is the same.
We ALL WANT HAPPINESS.
Everything that we do is an attempt to achieve this sensation.
We change or stay in a relationship because we hope it will make us happy.
We keep a job or strive for a new one because we hope it will lead to happiness.
We exercise and change what our diets are to loose weight or firm up our bodies, not because we truly care what we look like, but because we are hoping that the look and feeling of our bodies will make us happy in some way.
We learn new things to bring more joy into our lives. Weather that is through experience or money.
We offer our helping hand not because we truly believe that it is needed, wanted or should happen (although we convince ourselves of this) but because we hope that in our pursuit to be a “good person” that we will be happier.
EVERYTHING – everything, that we do is about OUR happiness.
So why is it so damn fucking hard to actually do the things that will truly make us happy and give us ever lasting change and the creation of our FUCK YES LIFE?
Why do we choose to find excuses as to not do the things and get the help that we need in life to make the life that we desire?
You know it is said that if you desire something, that the thing desires you as well. In other words, the things we crave at our soul level are calling to us and asking us to do the things that we need to do to grow ourselves and create the consciousness required to connect to our desires.
Each and everyone of us has a the same ability to make the choices that we need to make for ourselves to create the life that we want for this coming New Year.
The only real question’s you need to ask yourself are these:
▪ What are your top 1-3 areas of change/transformation that you know you need or want to work on in this new year?
What is the ONE thing you need to do in life to die happy?
Make this year a year of your full potential.
You deserve your greatness to be revealed.
It is truly fucking time to STOP playing small!
Our world needs YOU!
I can tell you that the world needs more men, women, couple’s turned on, vibrant, living on purpose and by their desires.
The world needs people who are transforming the world through their passion for life. This is ONLY done through opening up NOT to more work – but more PLAY.
The ONLY secret you ever need learn to have the life that you know you deserve and desire is the lesson to ALLOW YOUR OWN PLEASURE.
We have had our ability to receive pleasure in all forms taught right out of us. Our world is so focused on living by scarcity and taunt economics. No great thing every happened without allowing for some deliberate slack. In the slack we prevent the hyperactivity of our minds, energy and drive. In hyperactivity we loose fun, pleasure and joy. Everything becomes work and we cannot breathe or flow.
When we embrace that “slack” equals room to change. Room to grow. To create. We then open the doorway to the creation of our desires.
We gain compassion, understanding, direction.
There most certainly is an art to living in your bliss. But it is a most delicious process. And for those of us who choose to transform our lives and therefore the lives of all on this planet through pleasure, play and happiness we KNOW that it is a venture well worth moving into.
But it requires Your ALL.
▪ Are you ready to make this a year of your full potential?
This and MORE is possible.
Take my hand and take the plunge into your GREATNESS!
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- Is asking for approval needy?
- If this is so then this is why I don’t do it as much when I am feeling confident and centered in myself.
- But when I have confidence and don’t need approval or opinions from others then is this disconnect?
- So what is the best chosen path: disconnection or looking for connection through approval? How do they each benefit me?