Life can be a fight.
Life certainly can be a struggle.
And you know how crappy that can feel,
When it seems like you are rubbing your penny’s together trying to make ends meet.
Living pay check to pay check,
Or maybe not even knowing if there will be a pay check or where funds will come from.
You sit in the fear of not knowing,
You feel the burning desire to have things be different,
You look into the eyes of your children and avoid your own in the mirror.
Plotting and planning,
Looking at opportunities,
Trying to keep hope alive but feeling the stress of reality.
Life can be fight in these moments.
You are fighting for what feels everything.
Fighting for survival.
And you know how you can change it?
You can change it by simply stopping to fight.
Stop fighting for your suffering.
Stop fighting for the scarcity of everything you desire.
Stop arguing on behalf of why the life that you want is not showing up.
Do you get it beautiful?
Can you see that all your fearing and stressing,
Your reasoning as to why it is the way that it is and your need to chitter chat and gossip about how messed up things are in your world is the true culprit of creating your mess.
You are fighting the fight,
Because you feel like thats what you should do.
You are sharing your stories because you want it recognized that you are suffering despite all your focus, time and hard work.
You are wanting others to pat you on the head and say that they see you,
They see all you are doing and support that its not fair.
To say that you are so deserving and they too don’t get why things are the way they are.
You are fighting to keep alive your suffering and lack.
You are fighting to be understood for your not having.
You want it to be okay.
And so you argue with anything or anyone who says it could be different.
Including your own heart and soul.
Its hard to hear our truth,
Its challenging to be responsible for our lives.
But if you are to ever have your dreams manifest,
Then its time to get clear.
Life is only a fight when you are the one fighting with it.
You were born to be thriving.
Born to experience well being in all areas.
You were born to feel the path beneath each step that you take and take it in ease,
Because your nature is that of one who lives in flow and creates consciously,
But you my beautiful are fighting against your truth.
And arguing in favor of the life you claim to want to change.
Its time though.
Its time to step forth and look yourself in the eyes,
To acknowledge the fears and support you have been offering those fears.
Its time claim the life that you were born to live,
The love that you were born to embrace,
The abundance that you were born to experience,
Its time beautiful to claim it all.
Take just 20 seconds out of your chaotic day to sit with yourself,
In stillness and rest,
Rest your mind and heart on a dream and hold it up to the heavens of your soul to be revealed.
But you must hold on to it from a place of having,
A place of loving,
And let go of the argument.
Let go of the fight.
In love this Mothers Day Weekend to all the mama’s out there who work so hard at keeping it all together and raising their babies ❤.
You were born to lead mama,
You were born to create,
Let your children see the superwoman that you are.
Live Unbound and free.
Stop Existing & Start Living
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MY INTIMACY SHARE ON CURRENT FAMILY LIFE BLESSINGS- FROM A MOTHERS HEART – WHAT I HAVE LEARNED
Feeling in love this morning as I get ready for the day and the next two weeks of adventure. I am in gratitude for the lessons and experiences of my past,
as without them I would not appreciate that which is with me today in my relationships, lifestyle, and being. It is so obvious to me how easy it is to take things for granted until we are faced with the not having them and sometimes we have to go through great suffering to appreciate that which our heart desires.
The simple little things mean so much.
It’s the smile from your child when they see you walk in the door.
It’s the warm embrace from your partner for no reason.
It’s the kind acts of service, no matter how small that show such care.
It’s the time taken for a conversation without attention to some device.
It’s the snuggling before bed or the good morning kiss.
When Levi makes me breakfast unexpectedly my heart smiles and I feel so blessed.
Every day when Zach chooses to stop in and chat with me before going home, I feel blessed.
When Sam comes and shares her awe over Dameion’s newest milestones or just sits and has a beautiful deep conversation with me about women-hood, I feel blessed.
When Rebekah comes in and shares her latest mommy experience or challenge, or when she just walks up to me and gives me a big hug and say, “I love you., ” I feel blessed.
When Jules asks to go out with me for whatever reason but I can tell she actually needs to just have a moment with mom to share something happening and is uncertain how else to ask for it, I feel blessed.
When Zak Miller, rounds the corner in my house and walks over to me and gives me a big hug before anything else or sits and talks from his beautiful heart, I feel blessed.
When Eniqueo and I tease each other and we laugh, or we compete in love over a good game of darts, I feel blessed.
When Gabe, wakes up in the morning and snuggles next to me and says, “I want you to be my snuggle buddy.” or rushes to help me do something without being asked, I feel blessed.
When Rowan grabs me and hugs so tight I can barely breathe and claims me all for himself, ” My mommy!” or takes my hand and asks me to read him a story and snuggle, I feel blessed.
When Kia, Andrew and J storm in my home and run to me with smiles and big hugs, I feel blessed.
When Dameion looks with his big eye’s up at me while I am feeding him his bottle and smiles while slurping back his milk, I feel blessed.
When Steve stops everything he is doing because he noticed that something was not right with me without me saying anything and gives me a hug or when he does all the little things that are actually big things to take things off my table, I feel blessed.
When I catch that mental snapshot of a moment that is awe inspiring of my family connecting and loving, laughing and being them, I feel blessed.
My life is so crazy busy.
My life has so many beautiful souls,
these that I shared a fragment of what I am blessed by and so many other dear friends and sister/brother souls who just light up my world with them just being in it and choosing to share pieces of their life with me.
It is mornings like this morning,
that I am reminded that life has not always been like this.
Life has always been full,
and there is always drama.
But not that very long ago,
my children wanted to be around me but the energy in our home was not supportive.
The laughter and joy,
the deep connective moments,
the family enviroment,
the thought to another,
the connection between myself and my partner,
the love that I so badly wanted to feel,
it was not there.
It was vacant.
And my heart hurt because of it.
My children suffered for the lack of it.
And my lesson is to never settle for so little of such a valuable thing again.
One of the biggest blessing that our lives can have is the blessing of connection.
The blessing that people,
the people that we cherish want to be with us,
From my blessed mama heart to yours,
appreciate your blessings and put your focus on them.
They are what make life so beautiful.
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My body slowly let go of it’s need to control and prove itself and just accepted it’s GREATNESS.
What I do know is that I ALWAYS made it through.
I ALWAYS pushed through (pun intended).
And at the day, I got to meet a beautiful new little human.
And more importantly, they had introduced me to my SOUL.
We were built to RISK.
The point is, that YOU were BORN for GREATNESS.
So WAKE THE F*CK UP!
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