WTF Did you do over the weekend?
Did you live?
Did you THRIVE?
Each day we gain a new opportunity to do just these things.
And each day so many people choose to just get by.
To survive the day.
Does that sound fun to you?
“I am going to survive this day.”
What have you got going on?
So you see luv,
if you desire to live that F-ck Yes Life,
then you have to flip the switch to living it….
cuz surviving your life is never going to happen,
and no moment is ever promised to us.
If you don’t choose to flip that switch to living the life of your dreams,
regardless of what your friends and family say or think,
no matter what is happening in our governments, economy, or what debates are up,
then you will simply NEVER,
let me repeat that for you….
NEVER have the life that you claim that you desire.
Matter of fact you may even find yourself among the many who sit back and dissect and analyze all those who are out there living.
You may discover yourself so far out of alignment with your truth and your worthiness that you get caught up being a judgy, critical and even upset about others lives, person.
About what they choose to do or not to do.
You may discover that you are caught in the drama and chaos of the world that is always around us,
falling prey to its life stealing ways,
believing that, that is what you are to focus on.
Never realizing that it’s sabotaging you from the gift that you were given from God….
YOUR LIFE TO LIVE.
And living is not about just getting through the day and paying your bills,
about appearing to do what is expected,
or about people pleasing to the degree that you have nothing left to give to yourself.
Living is not about you doing anything that someone else deems appropriate or right for you.
Did you get that luv?
Living IS NOT about you doing what someone else “thinks or believes” is right for you.
They are not living your life.
And if you believe that you are here to please and be liked by everyone else,
then you’re simply being silly.
This way of “wantabe living” will only land you in a depression, exhaustion, emptiness, lost, and feeling unworthy, unloved, and broken.
It may feel good to help others,
and don’t get me wrong,
It’s a damn good thing to be compassionate and helpful.
But, if you are being helpful to the point that you have lost your boundaries and value,
then you are not helping anymore.
You cannot help those around you when you yourself are empty.
And the way that you fill yourself is by LIVING.
Is by THRIVING.
The more you do this,
the more you have to give.
The more you can be compassionate and in love with all.
I am a firm believer that the reason there is so much anger, hatred and jealousy in our world,
is because we have been raised to believe that loving ourselves, giving to ourselves, taking care of self first makes us a bad person. However, we crave just that at our core.
And so we hate ourselves.
ANd when we feel this shitty about ourselves we have no space for love for someone else.
We have no tolerance for our differences,
no ability to agree that we can disagree and still remain friends or lovers.
You see it is impossible to see clearly the world around us, when we are not thriving.
Any point outside of thriving, (which BTW is exactly what your life was intended to be about, it’s your set point if you allow it),
Any point other than thriving is you viewing the world from your pain body. From your trauma, your fear, your ego, your need to control, because you cannot fathom letting go of the suffering.
Thriving is a foregin concept to the majority of the world.
To the point that we finger point, try and shame, hate on and dissect those that are doing it. It scares our ego’s.
Because thriving means that you fully accept yourself, love yourself and KNOW WHO YOU ARE. You also, get that you cannot control others, nor should you desire too, that’s not loving….
That you cannot give to the point of exhaustion and crossing your own boundaries.
You understand that the best you,
is the you that loves you.
And that you are not going to be a wonderful person to the majority, simply because you are not doing what they want you to do.
THRIVING my love is about you expanding horizons,
getting to know yourself and falling in love with that amazing soul who looks back at you in the mirror,
NO EFFING matters what anyone else says or thinks about you on this planet.
THRIVING is about you surrendering to your heart,
and enjoying your life to the fullest.
THRIVING is about you accessing your DESIRE and knowing that you can have it,
that what you desire, desires you as well.
THRIVING is about being in alignment to God/Universe.
There are only two kinds of people on this planet….
Those that are in alignment.
Those that are not in alignment.
We are all both of these at times, the true question comes down to where to reside most of your life?
If you have no clue….
look at your world.
Let yourself get real with how you perceive this world,
how you truly feel about it.
Are you in love with your life?
or something other than?
It’s time to JUMP INTO THRIVING.
You are so worthy.
You are so ready.
Make the leap now and claim it for yourself.
The magic is all you baby.
***Side note: This picture was taken yesterday during my first jump, such a thrilling experience that I aim to repeat in the near future 🙂 but the weekend was loaded with adventure, from doing a ghost hunt in an 1845 jail, to exploring deep connection with my lover, staying in VRBO chicken coop, just because it sounded interesting, showering outside under the starry sky and more…No matter your life situation love, you can live an adventure, I know because I have done so. I have had to raise five children on $17k a year, I have been homeless and camped for months pretending that we were just having a summer adventure when in truth I could not afford a roof over our head or food, I have stood over the ER bed of my child who was in a sever accident and wondered if there were a God, I have been diagnosed with painful illnesses, been through miscarriages, years of depression, divorce, rape, physical violence that broke my body, and more…. and you know what? My spirit said, “LETS THRIVE! You are worthy.”
And today, my life is totally different. So different that people dislike and judge me for THRIVING and sharing it.
So much so different, that I think about something and it easily manifests in days. My life is now magical because I get that thriving is who I AM.
And you are too.
Stop Existing & Start Living
“Coaching for Grown A*s Believers”
Ready to leap into a life that you love?
Lets connect and get you expanding and saying F-ck Yes! to your thriving life now.
It’s time you stop just getting by.
You are worth so much.
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☀Sometimes waking up is so f*cking hard to do.☀
Have you had one of those mornings where you just want to continue to hit snooze no matter what 😴But you know if you do that you will not get to adulting today and instead just be a lump in your bed or on the couch? 👨👩👦👩🏫👨💼
Yeah that is where I was at this morning.
The last f*cking thing I wanted to do was get up when my 5:45AM alarm went off. I woke up exhausted from not sleeping well due to my 3 year old son who had a rough night with an upset tummy and bad dreams.
All he wanted was to be held in mommies arms.
But that meant this mommy was not sleeping to well herself. Especially with the consistent up’s and downs.
At 5:45AM I was not thinking about being a good mom.
I was not thinking about my soul’s calling or purpose.
I was not thinking about my responsibilities, my desires, my goals.
I was not thinking about any of this.
What I was thinking about was S-L-E-E-P!!!!!
And how could I get more of it.
But there I lay, saying my morning gratitude prayer instead of doing what I wanted so badly to do.
There I lay focusing my attention into the blessings and opportunities that the day was waiting to gift me with. Instead of the worry, frustration and desire to sleep it off and avoid life.
This was a 5 second decision that changed my life.
Yes my whole life.
If I had fallen prey to that calling of sleep and let myself drift off instead of activating my TRUE desire I would have lost the whole day. 🌞
The first 3-4 hours after we wake make or break our days. It is the mindset work. It is the consciousness training. It is the positive infusion of GRATITUDE and INTENTION setting that we do that creates the tone of the day and the tone of our lives.
We have a choice to allow ourselves to be lead away from our true desires and purpose or not.
We each have a choice EVERY morning to slay the day with our hearts and the divine guidance that they give us or to allow AVERAGE and ORDINARY to slay us and our dreams.
Every time we set up the day by hitting snooze.
Every time that we start our day in fear, worry, anger, panic, negative thoughts.
Every time we wake up not blessing ourselves.
We are ALLOWING the day to slay us.
We are PERMITTING our pain and suffering to rule us.
We are committing to a life of LIMITED LIVING.
Today, I committed, made the 5 second executive decision to STEP yet again AWAY from AVERAGE and into my GREATNESS.
I chose my SOUL.💃💃💃
I chose my HEART. 💖
I chose my PASSION.🔥🔥🔥
I chose GRATITUDE, BLESSING 🙏and the
What did you choose?