Miracles Are To Be Normal.

MIRACLES ARE NORMAL.

Miracles are the way we are supposed to live.
They are not supposed to be “miracles” but normalcy.

Your resistance to that normalcy is what makes them far and few between in your life.

Have you ever known a “lucky person” ?
You know that person who just wonders through thier life seemingly have things fall into place just in the right time.
Meeting all the right people.
Having great ideas and having everything just come to them that is needed to make them manifest.

We all know someone like this.
And each of us have experienced moments like this.

They are AMAZING.
RIGHT?

And thats what God/Universe has intended,
for miracles to be wonderous,
But part of our everyday experience.

You see a miracle is a lapse in your normal resistant thought.

Did you catch that?
Its a LAPSE…

In your normal resistant thought.
So if you simply surrendered more often to what feels good,
And allowed yourself to be happy more often,
Allowed yourself more opportunities to daydream your reality,
Then guess what you would have more of?

Miracles.

You would open yourself up more to the things you desire.
To the joy and abundance in life that you crave.
Now you may believe that you are doing this already,
And you most certainly might be,
But you can tell if you are or not by what is manifesting in your life right now.

I get it…
You may look at tour life and the shiz that is taking place,
You may have yourself convinced that you are a positive person,
That you are thinking positively,
That you are just going with the flow,
But if you are struggling love in any area of your life,

Then let’s get effing real!
God/universe has NOT opted to make you the redheaded step child of it.
Life has not shunned you.
And made the laws of the universe different or more difficult just for you.
Life is not trying to teach you some extra life lesson and its not telling you that you have to earn it or suffer more.
All the while making amazing shiz happen for others.

No love,
The simple reality that you have to get right with is that your norm is RESISTANCE.

Resistant thought.
Resistant emotions.
Thus resistant vibe.

And that means that YOU are the one who is making it harder than it needs to be on you.
Because yu believe it has to be hard.
You believe that you must suffer.
You believe that miracles are rare.
You believe so much crap,
And that’s what is sad.

You “think” that you are something that you are not.

You are blind to your piss poor attitude.
You are blind to your effing mask of fake positive.
You are blind to the reality that you think more about fearful things then you do miracles.

But love,
It does not have to be this way.

You can change it right now.
You can commit to something different.
You can let go of these crazy concepts and all this arguing for “why you don’t or can’t have”
And instead choose to set a new tone to your reality.

Are you ready?
Are you ready to say yes to you and to miracles?
Are you ready to get conscious about the truth and catch those crazy crappy thoughts that are creating all this misery and turn them around to a miracle normalcy?

Because you can.
But you have to have the desire,
The belief, and the motivation.

To stand out from what this world deems normal,
And in turn make your normal magical.

Lets go.
You are worthy.

And as always,
Stop Existing & Start Living
“Coaching for Grown A*s Believers ”
Message me today for opportunities to overcome your fear and step into a F-ck Yes! Lifestyle now.

What Being On A Wild Goose Chase Is Really About.

 

Running around like a chicken with its head cut off?

Feeling like you are always on a wild goose chase?
Always looking.
Always searching.
Never finding.

So very lost in this new life you are trying to carve out for yourself.
Uncertain exactly where your path is or if you are on the right one.

So much is changing and yet nothing that you want is manifesting.

Doubt.
Fear.
Anxiety.

You have been working so hard to keep your head down and get the shiz done that you know needs done. You have been pushing through those limiting beliefs and surpressing boundaries,
And what do you have to show for it?

Just whole lot of effed up emotions.
A big mess of newness that you haven’t the foggiest where to start the clean up with.
A feeling of will this ever get easier?
Will I ever feel happy or healed?
Will I ever have the life I want?

Is any of this struggle getting me any where?
Or am I just on a wild goose chase?

Cuz it sure as “F” is not showing up!
And I am exhausted.

Yeah baby,
I get ya.

I understand and have been here so many times on this journey.

But what I know today that I did not know before is worth it all.

What I know now is that I am the damn goose.

Go ahead scratch your head in bewilderment of WTF is that chick talking about?

Shes the goose.

If she’s the goose then she is claiming I am the goose in my own wild goose chase.

And that just can’t be.
How can I be the goose?

I am the hunter.
I am the one searching.
Craving.
I am hungry for the life that I want.

Its sure AF not chasing me.
I am chasing it.

I am chasing my dreams.
Just like all the great goal setters have said to do.
I set forth my dream boat,
And now I am in pursuit of my dreams.

I am just getting tired.
Thats all.
I will catch my hundredth wind.
I will.
I always do.
And when I do,
I will continue to pursue.

I sit every day and think about how great it will be when I have my dreams.

When I have my dream relationship.
My dream income.
My dream home.
My dream body.

Yes WHEN….
I can’t wait.

Its going to effing awesome.

I just gotta do the work.
I gotta have the patience.
I gotta just wait.
My dreams are coming.
I have most certainly paid the price for them.

So you see,
I am not the goose.

Oh but you are!

I use to think and feel just like you.
I was waiting for my dreams.
I was building my story
I was willing to wait.
Willing to pursue.
I was searching.

And then one day it was like the heavens opened and God spoke…

“You are the goose you are chasing.”

And I suddenly got it.
I was the goose.
Because I was chasing the void of my dreams not being here.
I was 1000% certain that I had to wait.
That I had to pay some price.
That I was not happy.

I was certain that I had to chase my dreams.
And so….
The universe gave me just that.

I manifested EXACTLY what I was certain about.
Day in and day out.
Where I consistently put my focus,
Is what I consistently recieved.

And I wondered why?
Why was I always on this wild goose chase?

Yet I was just chasing the goose that I had created.
So on this blessed day that God spoke to me about my goose I decided that I would do one simple thing….

STOP CHASING.

And so I did.
And now my dreams are not dreams I am chasing,
But instead realities I am living.

What are you chasing love?

As Always Stop Existing & Start Living
“Coaching for Grown A*s Believers “

Getting Naked With Myself.

You know you f-cking want it!

So why the hell don’t you take it?

 
Why the f-ck do you deny yourself it?
This is frank Friday folks and I am going to be VERY frank with you about a few things from love, sex, money, joy, blessing to just simply getting into alignment.
 
I work with beautiful people every day, they all have BIG dreams. BIG goals and crave a BIG life that is not just about survival but a life that they can feel.
 
A Life that they can enjoy.
That embraces them.
That is complex.
But comes with ease.
 
They have this idea, this concept that they were born for more.
They have this itch inside their soul that say’s that God put them here not to pay bills but to GIVE, to SHARE and to RECEIVE.
 
They have this little voice in them screaming that they are worthy if they will only allow themselves to be.
 
They have a desire, that will not be tamed.
It is a desire to be more.
To have more.
To share more.
It is a desire to become their purpose.
 
My main message of coaching to them and to you, if this at all sounds like you…
 
In order to have any of this. You MUST without a shadow of a doubt KNOW YOURSELF.
 
It is never about the HOW.
It is never about someone else needing to do something for you or change.
It is never about a niche.
It is never about the right time.
It is never about skills, or certificates.
Degree’s have nothing to do with it.
Showing up the way society is comfortable with you, has only the flip reaction for it.
Doing things the way your parents, friends or spouse want you to do/be/have -WILL NEVER get you any of it.
 
F-CK NO!!!!!!!
The ONLY, and I repeat only way you can have the F-ck YES! Life that you crave.
The only way you can have the orgasmic relationship that you want.
The only way you can have the deep connections that you desire.
The health and well-being that you want.
The overflowing abundance that you desire.
 
Is to effing know thy self.
 
Yes, this is the answer to your dreams.
When you know yourself, you are in alignment to your soul. Therefore you are in alignment to God. You open the channels for God to work through you. Suddenly your life is magical and full of blessings.
 
Luck of the Irish has nothing on you.
 
This is how you command down your blessings.
This is how you dance through life.
This is where you tap into your joy, your bliss and open to receive it.
 
You may say, “Hey, Kendal, I get it. I know myself really well. I feel totally in alignment to who I am. I just don’t understand why things are not connecting the way I want. ”
 
And my response to you is this,
If it is not connecting then you are not in alignment.
You may feel like you are in alignment, and you may very well be, here and there, but you are not maintaining it. Therefore you are wobbling and much like wobbling on a tight rope, you will fall.
 
This fall will feel like you have fallen out of favor with God. Out of blessing. You may even look for reasons as to what you did to deserve it. What sin did you commit.
 
The reality in most cases is that you are not guilty of any sin other than doubting yourself, doubting your alignment, getting caught in the how to’s and where is it coming from and there fore doubting God.
 
The doubt made you fall.
It separated you from your truth.
It made you question who you are and in that, you stopped knowing yourself.
You stopped trusting yourself.
 
So do you really know yourself?
Do you?
 
You may claim you do.
But it is time to get real.
Really f-cking REAL.
 
With the only person that matters.
YOU.
 
So what do you want?
What do you crave?
What do you desire?
 
Are you a match for it?
Are you sure?
Have you gotten into alignment?
 
Yes???????
 

Then where the F-CK is it?

Show it to me.

 
In the last 4 days I created $8,000 extra income out of no where. It just came in.
 
Do you know how this happened for me and why I am certain that more will continue to stream in without me ever trying to figure out the effing how?
 
Because I feel NO PRESSURE around it.
Matter a fact I hardly apply attention to it.
It just is.
 
SIMPLY put.
How can it not be there, when my expectation, my certainty say’s that it just is. It is just me.
Part of me.
Part of my flow.
I don’t need to question it.
If I focus to much on why or how it came about, then I am presenting the energy, the emotion and thought of not having it.
 
I am stepping out of alignment.
I am stepping away from myself, and therefore away from God.
 
I am stepping out of favor then.
Just me.
No one else.
 
And with that step I will feel the separation.
The pain.
The fear.
The depression.
The anger.
The doubt.
The anxiety.
 
That is where all those emotions come from.
Separation.
 
That is it.
 
So how do you create a life of Mother F-cking Juicy as Sh*t Abundance?
 
You just know yourself.
And KNOW you are worth it and all that you want and desire is already here with you.
 
That is it.
That is the BIG Secret.
 
So tap into you B-A-B-Y!
You deserve it.
You are it.
 
Get greedy.
And command that sh*t in.
 
If you don’t then who will?
What are you accepting in your life?
 
 

And as always,

Stop Existing & Start Living

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When Traffic Get’s You Down Try This….

I love TRAFFIC!

Seriously, I use to be one of those drivers that dreaded going anywhere because I was frustrated with the traffic issues, long before I ever got into the car. I was always making statements like,

“Oh god, its rush hour, you can’t get anywhere in this mess.”
“Why can’t people just merge?”
“These damn (fill in the state/city) drivers, how did they ever get their drivers license?”
“People can’t drive in the rain/snow…etc.”

And so on…

Then I became
ENLIGHTENED.

LOL, okay not really but sorta at the same time.

My enlightenment was finding my own guilt of these actions in myself.

My enlightenment came from the realization that everyone on the road was not just a car that was moving to fast or not fast enough, but a human being, with worries, fears, concerns, hope and desires.

My enlightenment came from seeing myself driving ALL these cars.

I realized that I was not a perfect driver.
I realized that I was not a perfect person.
I realized that I was perfectly human.

And with that came mishaps, silliness, stupidity even.
So who was I to cast a stone in the direction of any of my fellow drivers?

Who was I to assume that I knew what was happening in that person’s life to make them swerve the way they did, to zig or zag. To straddle the middle of the road or even slam on the brakes or not see that they needed to merge to exit.

Truth was I have no effing clue what is happening in their lives.
And the reality is that I have made some pretty poor choices behind the wheel in my life.

I am a good driver, a safe driver, a present driver.
For the most part.

But there are plenty of times that I am NONE of these things.

So who am I to cast that stone?

And why am I allowing what is happening in their life to negatively impact my day?

They are not “doing this to me.”
It is not a purposeful act.

And even if it was, it most likely was not for the intent that I believe.

Assumptions are never a good choice.
Giving our power over to others is also never a good choice and that mean’s in this case to become a victim to other people’s driving choices.

They are the drivers of their cars, their lives and they are making choices based on what they feel is best for them in that moment.

Behind the wheel of their car, they are doing what they need to feel like they are getting themselves where they need to be. How they need to be and in the speed they want to get there.

I love traffic!

Traffic carries with it so many life lessons.
Just this morning as I was driving to coffee with a friend I found myself in the center lane, there was this large pick up truck that came up fast on my tale. He had to slam on the breaks and as I looked in the rear-view mirror I saw him hit his steering wheel in frustration of my speed. We were in a 45 MPH zone and I was driving 40 with cars directly in front of me and on both sides.

Traffic was moving comfortably and smoothly.
This man behind me though wanted something different.
He wanted to force his desires onto the traffic and push his way through.

And so he did.
He moved to the left of me and the car in front of him speed up some so he could parallel me, then he decided that if he just leaned into my lane that I should drop my speed and let him in, only issue was that I did not react as fast enough for him, so he got closer to the car he was behind and they went faster, giving him just enough room to push his way between me and the car in front of me. I let off the gas so to not hit him. He quickly got more irritated because he was stuck in the middle lane and the three cars that took up the lanes in front of him were all side by side, driving equal speed’s. He moved himself between the right lane and the center repeatedly, as if saying look at me, I need through.

No one budged.

Finally one car moved to a turn lane and he jumped on the opening and whizzed around the others, only leading to the next snag in the tight but smoothly moving traffic. He continued this process and any opening in traffic allowing him to speed up he did, racing to the line up of cars, where he continued to zig and zag, lean on his horn even and slam his steering wheel in his frustration with traffic not doing what he wanted.

Meanwhile, I remained in the middle lane.
Driving 40mph.
Enjoying the smoothness of traffic and appreciating how I had not hit one red light but instead noticed that the speed I was driving was allowing me to move without stopping almost all the way to my destination.

I was in the FLOW.

It was in this moment that I came upon my first and only red light.
I merged over to the turn lane where I was turning and found myself beside the truck that had spent his whole time zigging and zagging in frustration. There he was flipping the man next to him off in total disgust and slamming his hand on his steering wheel still.

I could not help but just take a breath and smile.
I was not smiling at his frustration and pain,
I was not smiling and thinking, “Ha, that’s what you get.”

No I was smiling because of the lesson.
My lesson.

Just yesterday, my mentor left me a message on voxer reminding me about the importance of FLOW.

The message was to not get caught up in the actions of DOING so much.

To not get caught in the HOW.
To not get caught in the physical ACTIONS.
And the WHAT IS of the now.

But instead to find my soul’s flow and ALLOW it to take me.

I love traffic!

It’s all about FLOW, 
Or lack of it.

While so many zig and zag their way through life,
frustrated at the result they are getting,
those who find their flow,
find their soul.
There heart.
Their purpose.
Their JOY.

And create their own LUCK.
Create their own DESIRED LIFE.

FLOW + Gratitude = F*ck YES Life Creation!!!!

I love traffic!
Don’t You?

And remember,
Stop Existing & Start Living 

Join Kendal TODAY for a F*ck Yes Life experience. Limited time access to 1:1 coaching and online coaching programs to help you master your FREEDOM based life NOW.