Will You Recognize It?

Opportunities are like babies.
And now as a grandmother (OMFG! I just wrote that…yes I did. Breathing….🤯 Milestone!!!!! in my life here folks.)
As I look into the eye’s of my one week old grandson,
I have a whole new awareness for life come through me.
And it is all about the many beautiful, chilling, scary, and exciting opportunities that life provides us.
 
Holding this sweet angel in my arms just last night,
it came into my heart 💞
that opportunities are always all around us.
Years back,
in my twenties when I was part of a financial service company I was big into self-growth. I was off to all the major players events. Reading their books, listening to their audios and absorbing everything that I could.
 
There was this statement that was often said that I felt like I “should” believe.
 
But my SOUL always and still does say eff that sh*t!
 
The statement was,
“You only get two major opportunities in life. If you miss the first you better recognize the second, because otherwise it will be too late. Which is this one?”
 
I looked out at the people all around me.
My elders.
The leaders.
I saw so many people scrambling around,
working their bums off in a hasty attempt to make sure they did not miss the boat.
 
They were drenched in fear.
Their actions all came from this same place.
And they wondered why they were not being blessed with more abundance manifesting in their lives.
 
So they worked harder.
and harder.
They door knocked.
They went to every event they could that sold them on if you do this and this then all your dreams will happen.
They studied,
got all the licenses they needed,
they set daily, weekly, monthly, annual, ten year GOALS.
They happily got their a*s kicking in from the leaders.
The one’s who were making sh*t happen.
 
And they jumped into the game of healthy competition.
 
Ask someone back then in my circle how they were and you would get a script Tom Hopkins response, “Unbelievable!”
 
LOL.
 
But internally, behind the BIG effing smile.
Behind the BIG lofty GOALS.
Behind all the training’s and workshops.
Was a scared human being who desperately desired to just be seen, to be embraced.
Loved for who they were.
and PAID effing great for it too.
 
And they feared they were not WORTHY.
They feared they were not GOOD ENOUGH.
They feared that they were not SMART enough.
They feared so much.
 
But what they feared more than anything,
was that this was their second BIG opportunity to CLAIM their LIFE.
 
To make sh*t happen FINALLY.
To once and for all live life the way that God had intended for them.
The way that their SOUL wanted.
It was the CALL from deep withing that they feared.
They feared that they could not answer it.
That they would miss it.
And that all would be lost.
 
And you know what the sad truth is and was?
 
They were correct.
 
They were correct,
not because this was the last opportunity.
Not because we are only offered two opportunities in our life.
(that is sheer craziness anyway)
but because they were coming at life,
coming at this opportunity,
from FEAR.
And because they focused so hard on what they feared.
They created just that in their lives.
 
As I sat here last night at my daughters home,
children playing all around me.
Laughter in the air.
Good food and wine on the table.
And this sweet little blessing in my arms.
I realized that no matter how hard we try and eff it up,
no matter how often we turn our back on our SOUL CALLING.
No matter how much we fear life or the loss of it.
 
We are NEVER more that a thought,
an inspired feeling,
away from OPPORTUNITY.
 
From GETTING IT ALL RIGHT.
And what does getting it all right mean,
when you cannot get it wrong?
 
It means that you STOP FEARING,
and you simply START ACTING from HEART and SOUL.
 
Just as a baby nuzzles it’s face around looking for milk,
searching with anticipation,
hungry for satisfaction.
We too, must do the same with life.
 
The statement about opportunity is correct about one thing though.
 
“Will you recognize it?”
 
Well will you?
 
The main issue we have in our humanness is that we miss all the blessings,
all the opportunities that around us,
because we are blinded by our fear.
 
The only answer to you ever need really get,
if you are wanting to create a life of abundance.
A life worthy of your SOUL.
Is to STOP overly examining the IS that is in your current time frame. And start applying yourself to the life that you want.
 
Just like Einstein said, “Attention goes where energy flows.”
 
This is perhaps one of the most obvious manifestation tools.
It is foundational.
We claim to get it.
It makes logical sense. But we consistently have the greatest trouble grasping it truly.
 
But if you want to design the life of your dreams,
then you have to stop observing the life of your nightmares or your boredom.
 
What you focus on become’s prominent.
 
Opportunities are like babies.
Babies focus only on the moment and what they need to feel satisfied.
 
You and I both have many blessings around us.
We have much satisfaction.
Yet we often choose to focus on all that we do not have instead and then bi*ch about more of that showing the eff up.
 
Become like a baby in your focus on your dreams.
Nuzzle up to them and stay close.
Take everything else out of your mind and just sip away at all that life has to offer you.
 
Because it is so yummy.
And good for YOU.
Good for your SOUL.
 
This is alignment love.
 
As Always,
Stop Existing & Start Living
“Coaching for Grown A*s Believers”
 
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Well here is your opportunity love.
Will you recognize it? 😛
 
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Change Your Focus.

The leap of faith.
The leap of inspired action.
The leap of true love.
The leap.

That is what we crave.
That is what we want.
That is what we fear.

When we leap, we also risk.
And there is this feeling that we could die.
This feeling of jumping out of a plane, 
into the unknown, 
and we question if our shoot will open, 
or worse yet if we remembered to put our shoot on even.

So we focus on all that could go wrong.
We focus on all that is not happening.
We look at the evidence, 
and we get caught up in the strings of what is not even reality.

Talk a big game.
Speak of soul alignment.
Say that we have prayed about it.
Share our faith about our success with everyone we can.

But internally, we are anxious.
Nervous.
Fearful.
And full of doubt.

We can taste the joy of our success.
We can feel the excitement of FINALLY having what we want to manifest so bad, 
but that damn little voice in our head, 
that voice that wants to sabotage us.

SHUT UP!

Alright, alright, I hear you.
I get it.
I am stupid.
I am ugly.
I am not worthy.
I an pathetic.
I am a bad person.
I don’t know what to do.

And we weep.
We shake in fear of all the crap that we feed ourselves. 
The words. 
The statements.
The imagery.

We are sure to fail.

But NO.
We must try.
We owe it to ourselves.
To our loved ones.
We want so badly to prove that we are worthy.

And so we listen to a guru.
We sign up for a program.
We get serious!
We put our head down, 
and we get to work.

WORK.
WORK.
WORK.

Yes we must write down our goals.
We must focus on our weak muscles and build them stronger by knowing our weakness.
And overcoming it.
We must get up earlier.
Stay up later.
Do everything that feels forced, scary, and hard.
We must MAKE IT HAPPEN!!!!

And so we struggle a bit longer. 
And we prove to ourselves how undeserving and stupid we are. 
How success is not meant for us. 
We look out into the world and we see everyone doing so great, 
but we fully understand that we don’t have the skills to make it happen.

So we lower our heads.
We take our loss.
And we put the ball down on what we are so called too.
We turn away from our dreams. 
And we make excuses.
Logical excuses.

Yes here is where so many people are RIGHT NOW.
As I sit here a third of the way through the first month of the new year, I see so many of you beautiful people struggling.

Companies are laying off.
Pink slips are hitting so many people without any fair warning.
The government is under challenges.
Causing issues with our taxes, 
causing issues with our mail, 
with so many things.

We have come through the joy and stress of the holidays
we have hopes and goals for the new year, 
and we are loosing focus already.

I hear so many speaking about what they cannot have.
Settling already for another year of the SAME.

But there is no FAITH in this.
There is no GROWTH in this.
There is no JOY/HAPPINESS in this.
And there is for sure no SOUL in this.

No your soul my love, 
has all the certainty that you need to make your dreams come true. 
All you need do is get in alignment to it and STOP focusing on what is not happening.

Don’t turn away from your dreams.
Don’t get discouraged about what you want that is not happening.

No instead, 
FOCUS on what you do have.
Focus on the joy, love, good stuff that IS in your world.
Even if it is just a small little moment. 
Lean into it love.
Here is the doorway to your greatness.

Calm your mind each day.
Make space for SOUL to speak to you.
Make time for yourself to connect to God.
LISTEN.

Soul alignment ONLY comes from creating a space of stillness and listening.

Here is where you GAIN EVERYTHING.

And when you hear the call
you feel the turn on.

Then you can LEAP with Inspired Guidance and take Inspired Action.

Here is where you will discover that as you take your focus off of all that you think you should be doing, 
and you simply create space for it to happen, 
that is will just manifest with ease and speed.

Silence.
Openness.
A focus on feeling good.
Change your focus. 
Change your life.

As always, 
Stop existing & Start Living
“Coaching for Grown A*s Believers”

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