Getting Naked With Myself.

You know you f-cking want it!

So why the hell don’t you take it?

 
Why the f-ck do you deny yourself it?
This is frank Friday folks and I am going to be VERY frank with you about a few things from love, sex, money, joy, blessing to just simply getting into alignment.
 
I work with beautiful people every day, they all have BIG dreams. BIG goals and crave a BIG life that is not just about survival but a life that they can feel.
 
A Life that they can enjoy.
That embraces them.
That is complex.
But comes with ease.
 
They have this idea, this concept that they were born for more.
They have this itch inside their soul that say’s that God put them here not to pay bills but to GIVE, to SHARE and to RECEIVE.
 
They have this little voice in them screaming that they are worthy if they will only allow themselves to be.
 
They have a desire, that will not be tamed.
It is a desire to be more.
To have more.
To share more.
It is a desire to become their purpose.
 
My main message of coaching to them and to you, if this at all sounds like you…
 
In order to have any of this. You MUST without a shadow of a doubt KNOW YOURSELF.
 
It is never about the HOW.
It is never about someone else needing to do something for you or change.
It is never about a niche.
It is never about the right time.
It is never about skills, or certificates.
Degree’s have nothing to do with it.
Showing up the way society is comfortable with you, has only the flip reaction for it.
Doing things the way your parents, friends or spouse want you to do/be/have -WILL NEVER get you any of it.
 
F-CK NO!!!!!!!
The ONLY, and I repeat only way you can have the F-ck YES! Life that you crave.
The only way you can have the orgasmic relationship that you want.
The only way you can have the deep connections that you desire.
The health and well-being that you want.
The overflowing abundance that you desire.
 
Is to effing know thy self.
 
Yes, this is the answer to your dreams.
When you know yourself, you are in alignment to your soul. Therefore you are in alignment to God. You open the channels for God to work through you. Suddenly your life is magical and full of blessings.
 
Luck of the Irish has nothing on you.
 
This is how you command down your blessings.
This is how you dance through life.
This is where you tap into your joy, your bliss and open to receive it.
 
You may say, “Hey, Kendal, I get it. I know myself really well. I feel totally in alignment to who I am. I just don’t understand why things are not connecting the way I want. ”
 
And my response to you is this,
If it is not connecting then you are not in alignment.
You may feel like you are in alignment, and you may very well be, here and there, but you are not maintaining it. Therefore you are wobbling and much like wobbling on a tight rope, you will fall.
 
This fall will feel like you have fallen out of favor with God. Out of blessing. You may even look for reasons as to what you did to deserve it. What sin did you commit.
 
The reality in most cases is that you are not guilty of any sin other than doubting yourself, doubting your alignment, getting caught in the how to’s and where is it coming from and there fore doubting God.
 
The doubt made you fall.
It separated you from your truth.
It made you question who you are and in that, you stopped knowing yourself.
You stopped trusting yourself.
 
So do you really know yourself?
Do you?
 
You may claim you do.
But it is time to get real.
Really f-cking REAL.
 
With the only person that matters.
YOU.
 
So what do you want?
What do you crave?
What do you desire?
 
Are you a match for it?
Are you sure?
Have you gotten into alignment?
 
Yes???????
 

Then where the F-CK is it?

Show it to me.

 
In the last 4 days I created $8,000 extra income out of no where. It just came in.
 
Do you know how this happened for me and why I am certain that more will continue to stream in without me ever trying to figure out the effing how?
 
Because I feel NO PRESSURE around it.
Matter a fact I hardly apply attention to it.
It just is.
 
SIMPLY put.
How can it not be there, when my expectation, my certainty say’s that it just is. It is just me.
Part of me.
Part of my flow.
I don’t need to question it.
If I focus to much on why or how it came about, then I am presenting the energy, the emotion and thought of not having it.
 
I am stepping out of alignment.
I am stepping away from myself, and therefore away from God.
 
I am stepping out of favor then.
Just me.
No one else.
 
And with that step I will feel the separation.
The pain.
The fear.
The depression.
The anger.
The doubt.
The anxiety.
 
That is where all those emotions come from.
Separation.
 
That is it.
 
So how do you create a life of Mother F-cking Juicy as Sh*t Abundance?
 
You just know yourself.
And KNOW you are worth it and all that you want and desire is already here with you.
 
That is it.
That is the BIG Secret.
 
So tap into you B-A-B-Y!
You deserve it.
You are it.
 
Get greedy.
And command that sh*t in.
 
If you don’t then who will?
What are you accepting in your life?
 
 

And as always,

Stop Existing & Start Living

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When Traffic Get’s You Down Try This….

I love TRAFFIC!

Seriously, I use to be one of those drivers that dreaded going anywhere because I was frustrated with the traffic issues, long before I ever got into the car. I was always making statements like,

“Oh god, its rush hour, you can’t get anywhere in this mess.”
“Why can’t people just merge?”
“These damn (fill in the state/city) drivers, how did they ever get their drivers license?”
“People can’t drive in the rain/snow…etc.”

And so on…

Then I became
ENLIGHTENED.

LOL, okay not really but sorta at the same time.

My enlightenment was finding my own guilt of these actions in myself.

My enlightenment came from the realization that everyone on the road was not just a car that was moving to fast or not fast enough, but a human being, with worries, fears, concerns, hope and desires.

My enlightenment came from seeing myself driving ALL these cars.

I realized that I was not a perfect driver.
I realized that I was not a perfect person.
I realized that I was perfectly human.

And with that came mishaps, silliness, stupidity even.
So who was I to cast a stone in the direction of any of my fellow drivers?

Who was I to assume that I knew what was happening in that person’s life to make them swerve the way they did, to zig or zag. To straddle the middle of the road or even slam on the brakes or not see that they needed to merge to exit.

Truth was I have no effing clue what is happening in their lives.
And the reality is that I have made some pretty poor choices behind the wheel in my life.

I am a good driver, a safe driver, a present driver.
For the most part.

But there are plenty of times that I am NONE of these things.

So who am I to cast that stone?

And why am I allowing what is happening in their life to negatively impact my day?

They are not “doing this to me.”
It is not a purposeful act.

And even if it was, it most likely was not for the intent that I believe.

Assumptions are never a good choice.
Giving our power over to others is also never a good choice and that mean’s in this case to become a victim to other people’s driving choices.

They are the drivers of their cars, their lives and they are making choices based on what they feel is best for them in that moment.

Behind the wheel of their car, they are doing what they need to feel like they are getting themselves where they need to be. How they need to be and in the speed they want to get there.

I love traffic!

Traffic carries with it so many life lessons.
Just this morning as I was driving to coffee with a friend I found myself in the center lane, there was this large pick up truck that came up fast on my tale. He had to slam on the breaks and as I looked in the rear-view mirror I saw him hit his steering wheel in frustration of my speed. We were in a 45 MPH zone and I was driving 40 with cars directly in front of me and on both sides.

Traffic was moving comfortably and smoothly.
This man behind me though wanted something different.
He wanted to force his desires onto the traffic and push his way through.

And so he did.
He moved to the left of me and the car in front of him speed up some so he could parallel me, then he decided that if he just leaned into my lane that I should drop my speed and let him in, only issue was that I did not react as fast enough for him, so he got closer to the car he was behind and they went faster, giving him just enough room to push his way between me and the car in front of me. I let off the gas so to not hit him. He quickly got more irritated because he was stuck in the middle lane and the three cars that took up the lanes in front of him were all side by side, driving equal speed’s. He moved himself between the right lane and the center repeatedly, as if saying look at me, I need through.

No one budged.

Finally one car moved to a turn lane and he jumped on the opening and whizzed around the others, only leading to the next snag in the tight but smoothly moving traffic. He continued this process and any opening in traffic allowing him to speed up he did, racing to the line up of cars, where he continued to zig and zag, lean on his horn even and slam his steering wheel in his frustration with traffic not doing what he wanted.

Meanwhile, I remained in the middle lane.
Driving 40mph.
Enjoying the smoothness of traffic and appreciating how I had not hit one red light but instead noticed that the speed I was driving was allowing me to move without stopping almost all the way to my destination.

I was in the FLOW.

It was in this moment that I came upon my first and only red light.
I merged over to the turn lane where I was turning and found myself beside the truck that had spent his whole time zigging and zagging in frustration. There he was flipping the man next to him off in total disgust and slamming his hand on his steering wheel still.

I could not help but just take a breath and smile.
I was not smiling at his frustration and pain,
I was not smiling and thinking, “Ha, that’s what you get.”

No I was smiling because of the lesson.
My lesson.

Just yesterday, my mentor left me a message on voxer reminding me about the importance of FLOW.

The message was to not get caught up in the actions of DOING so much.

To not get caught in the HOW.
To not get caught in the physical ACTIONS.
And the WHAT IS of the now.

But instead to find my soul’s flow and ALLOW it to take me.

I love traffic!

It’s all about FLOW, 
Or lack of it.

While so many zig and zag their way through life,
frustrated at the result they are getting,
those who find their flow,
find their soul.
There heart.
Their purpose.
Their JOY.

And create their own LUCK.
Create their own DESIRED LIFE.

FLOW + Gratitude = F*ck YES Life Creation!!!!

I love traffic!
Don’t You?

And remember,
Stop Existing & Start Living 

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