Getting Naked With Myself.

You know you f-cking want it!

So why the hell don’t you take it?

 
Why the f-ck do you deny yourself it?
This is frank Friday folks and I am going to be VERY frank with you about a few things from love, sex, money, joy, blessing to just simply getting into alignment.
 
I work with beautiful people every day, they all have BIG dreams. BIG goals and crave a BIG life that is not just about survival but a life that they can feel.
 
A Life that they can enjoy.
That embraces them.
That is complex.
But comes with ease.
 
They have this idea, this concept that they were born for more.
They have this itch inside their soul that say’s that God put them here not to pay bills but to GIVE, to SHARE and to RECEIVE.
 
They have this little voice in them screaming that they are worthy if they will only allow themselves to be.
 
They have a desire, that will not be tamed.
It is a desire to be more.
To have more.
To share more.
It is a desire to become their purpose.
 
My main message of coaching to them and to you, if this at all sounds like you…
 
In order to have any of this. You MUST without a shadow of a doubt KNOW YOURSELF.
 
It is never about the HOW.
It is never about someone else needing to do something for you or change.
It is never about a niche.
It is never about the right time.
It is never about skills, or certificates.
Degree’s have nothing to do with it.
Showing up the way society is comfortable with you, has only the flip reaction for it.
Doing things the way your parents, friends or spouse want you to do/be/have -WILL NEVER get you any of it.
 
F-CK NO!!!!!!!
The ONLY, and I repeat only way you can have the F-ck YES! Life that you crave.
The only way you can have the orgasmic relationship that you want.
The only way you can have the deep connections that you desire.
The health and well-being that you want.
The overflowing abundance that you desire.
 
Is to effing know thy self.
 
Yes, this is the answer to your dreams.
When you know yourself, you are in alignment to your soul. Therefore you are in alignment to God. You open the channels for God to work through you. Suddenly your life is magical and full of blessings.
 
Luck of the Irish has nothing on you.
 
This is how you command down your blessings.
This is how you dance through life.
This is where you tap into your joy, your bliss and open to receive it.
 
You may say, “Hey, Kendal, I get it. I know myself really well. I feel totally in alignment to who I am. I just don’t understand why things are not connecting the way I want. ”
 
And my response to you is this,
If it is not connecting then you are not in alignment.
You may feel like you are in alignment, and you may very well be, here and there, but you are not maintaining it. Therefore you are wobbling and much like wobbling on a tight rope, you will fall.
 
This fall will feel like you have fallen out of favor with God. Out of blessing. You may even look for reasons as to what you did to deserve it. What sin did you commit.
 
The reality in most cases is that you are not guilty of any sin other than doubting yourself, doubting your alignment, getting caught in the how to’s and where is it coming from and there fore doubting God.
 
The doubt made you fall.
It separated you from your truth.
It made you question who you are and in that, you stopped knowing yourself.
You stopped trusting yourself.
 
So do you really know yourself?
Do you?
 
You may claim you do.
But it is time to get real.
Really f-cking REAL.
 
With the only person that matters.
YOU.
 
So what do you want?
What do you crave?
What do you desire?
 
Are you a match for it?
Are you sure?
Have you gotten into alignment?
 
Yes???????
 

Then where the F-CK is it?

Show it to me.

 
In the last 4 days I created $8,000 extra income out of no where. It just came in.
 
Do you know how this happened for me and why I am certain that more will continue to stream in without me ever trying to figure out the effing how?
 
Because I feel NO PRESSURE around it.
Matter a fact I hardly apply attention to it.
It just is.
 
SIMPLY put.
How can it not be there, when my expectation, my certainty say’s that it just is. It is just me.
Part of me.
Part of my flow.
I don’t need to question it.
If I focus to much on why or how it came about, then I am presenting the energy, the emotion and thought of not having it.
 
I am stepping out of alignment.
I am stepping away from myself, and therefore away from God.
 
I am stepping out of favor then.
Just me.
No one else.
 
And with that step I will feel the separation.
The pain.
The fear.
The depression.
The anger.
The doubt.
The anxiety.
 
That is where all those emotions come from.
Separation.
 
That is it.
 
So how do you create a life of Mother F-cking Juicy as Sh*t Abundance?
 
You just know yourself.
And KNOW you are worth it and all that you want and desire is already here with you.
 
That is it.
That is the BIG Secret.
 
So tap into you B-A-B-Y!
You deserve it.
You are it.
 
Get greedy.
And command that sh*t in.
 
If you don’t then who will?
What are you accepting in your life?
 
 

And as always,

Stop Existing & Start Living

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10,000 Reasons

I feel so f*cking good, do you?

I sure hope you do.

I feel so AMAZING.

FREE.

EXCITED.

IN LOVE.

And most of all in GRATITUDE.

Guess what for?

YOU.

Yes, YOU.

Your determination, curiosity, passion and desire to make this world a better place makes every moment here on this earth more valuable.

Your creative flow, deep emotions and craving for something more than average and ordinary excites my soul as it does many other’s that you touch without ever realizing.

Your strength, vulnerability and turn on to experience life fully and embrace all the blessings that God has in store for you shines  brighter than the brightest star and ignites my soul to hold my arms wide in support for you.

Your wild and crazy heart that you so badly long to follow but find yourself stepping gingerly forward on the path that you cannot really see yet, brings a sweet smile to my face as I feel your fear, your nervousness and excitement and commend your courage for taking that step in faith.

Your ability to always remain a student to yourself, continuously  searching for new treasures to be uncovered is a reason for the sun to rise everyday and this world to keep spinning.

As you spread your wings to allow the breath of God to carry you to your true destiny and you seek deeper and fiercer within it, is reason for the angels to sing of your glory, your worthiness to live a life of fullness and blessing.

You know at your core you are NOT average and ordinary.

You know who you are.

You are so much more than what you have been showing up as so far.

Open your wings BABY!

10,000 way’s you grace this world with your love, your passion, and your soul.

10,0000 reason’s for you to embrace who you are meant to be.

10,000 reason’s that I say THANK YOU and find my heart and soul in complete rapture for love of how miraculous you are.

Yes YOU.

You are the ONE,

The one that makes me smile when you share your growth.

Your fear.

Your heart and soul.

You are the one that makes my heart sore when you message me in surrender to your soul’s calling and take that leap.

Yes, BABY, you got this!

You deserve this!

You are love.

And you are loved.

Feel that excitement to take that step forward…

Feel the rush of joy and fear as they blend in your belly when you take that leap into your great unknown and say YES to yourself.

YES to the Life that you were called to live.

Yes to your well-being.

Yes to the relationship you crave.

Yes to the abundance that wants to flow through you.

Yes to the life where you are no longer surviving, but you are turned-on, tapped in and in your flow.

10,000 reasons my beautiful that you can have it, were born for it and that I am thankful for YOU being you.

COME NOW and walk with me, let us see a new day dawning.

YOUR DAY.

Will you say YES?

YES to the most important person here.

You were born for the F*ck YES Life.

Stop Existing & Start Living!

 

Put the Thanks Back in Thanksgiving

In the United States, fall marks a trifecta of holidays that snowball, picking up speed as they carry us,—often chaotically—from October through the New Year. The party starts with the distinctly non-religious (some would say pagan) celebration of Halloween; progresses to the spiritually inclusive embracing of gratitude that is Thanksgiving; and culminates in various religious observances ranging from Christmas to Hanukkah to Kwanza. Sadly, long before we reach Thanksgiving Day, we are already being bombarded with commercial messages regarding the season to come, and a true sense of gratitude gets lost in the shuffle.

So how do we avoid succumbing to this all-pervasive seasonal commercialism? Here are some ideas for putting the thanks back in your family’s Thanksgiving celebration this year:

GIVE THANKS

It sounds obvious. Too simple. But to cultivate a sense of gratitude, we must actually take time at our meal to give thanks. A pre-meal blessing is a good start, but why not take it a step further and have everyone around your Thanksgiving table share a blessing they are particularly grateful for this year? If your crowd needs some prompting, pass a basket filled with slips of paper that ask each person to recall either a friend, a family member, a place, an opportunity, a trip, a meal, a relationship, etc. that has brought them joy during the past year. This little nudge may get the gratitude ball rolling, and before you know it your gathering will be filled with the real spirit of Thanksgiving.

ONE HOLIDAY AT A TIME

Don’t short circuit the attitude of gratitude you cultivate on Thanksgiving Day by diving into preparations for the next holiday right away. Give yourself some breathing room. Be mindful about moving from one holiday to the next and about creating space between the two. Holiday magic is lost if we are in perpetual celebratory mode from October through the New Year. The deeper significance of each commemoration is sublimated if they are dragged out and run together. So instead of obsessing about what picture to put on your Christmas card the minute the turkey leftovers are in the fridge, try staying in the Thanksgiving spirit at least through the entire day. A post-meal walk with family and friends is a great way to revel in the beautiful fall weather and work off some of that delicious meal you all enjoyed.

BOYCOTT BLACK FRIDAY

And when you wake up the next morning, commit to boycotting Black Friday. One concrete way to establish a boundary between Thanksgiving and your next holiday celebration (Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanza, etc.) is to eschew this retail-centric tradition. That’s right. No matter how tempting the sales. How amazing the deals. Make a pact with yourself (and family and friends if they are on a similar path) to stay home the day after Thanksgiving. Remember those blessings you talked about around the table the day before. Build a fire. Play board games. Watch football. Do anything but turn your spiritual celebration into a material quest.

Too often we feel swept up by forces outside ourselves during this busy time of your. Our head is filled with more “must do” items than will fit on a one-page to-do list. In reality, there is very little that we must do to make this season special for ourselves, our friends and our family. By focusing on keeping things simple and taking it slow, we can return to our Thanksgiving roots, established by Native Americans and colonists, of coming together, sharing what we have and giving thanks.

By Monette Chilson READ ORIGINAL POST on Om Times