There you go again.
Chasing everything that you don’t want because you got caught up in everyone else’s stuff.
Thinking that, that is what you should do if you love them.
And what has happened to you love?
Oh, I know….
you lost yourself.
Yet again you forgot about the most important person in your life.
You forgot to make time and space for you.
And look what has come of it.
Your world is in chaos.
Your exhausted and overwhelmed.
You are running on empty.
And as much as you want to point a finger outward,
and say that they made you do it.
Say that you had no choice.
You know that it is bullsh*t!
So what are you going to do about it?
You may want to put your head down and force your will.
You may want to fully retract yourself from everything and go into hiding.
You may think that you cannot stop this cycle and that you have to just keep on going.
You may still believe even that you need to do that.
But the reality,
is far from what you think it is love.
The reality is that it is HIGH time that you PAUSE and take a moment for YOU.
At all cost too.
Because the other cost’s are far too great if you let them manifest into existence.
I mean if you keep doing what you are doing,
what do you think will end up happening?
Suddenly things will change on their own?
Suddenly someone will stop everything and say, “Hey, no don’t keep doing all of this for me and everyone else, let me carry that for you, and you just go take a holiday for yourself…”
That is laughable.
And it won’t happen.
Because you are not allowing it to happen.
Because you somewhere in your crazy thinking and feeling believing that it cannot happen and that you don’t deserve it to happen,
even though at your core,
if you ask yourself what you truly want,
you may be shocked to discover that you believe and almost expect that someone will come save you from the choices that you are making and from the actions that you are taking and all that you are carrying.
And if you get really real with yourself you may even feel some anger or bitterness around this.
I mean look at all that you are doing for everyone else.
You do it all.
You carry all that load for everyone,
and surly they will notice.
Surely they will see it and want to say thank you.
Not just say thank you,
but REALLY say THANK YOU.
And then you will be happy!
this has got to sound a bit whacked to you.
I mean you know logically that it is not so.
You know that ONLY YOU can make the changes in your life that are needed.
I mean you get that you are responsible for your life.
I hope you do.
Because that is the only f-cking way out of this mess you have yourself in.
The only way out of it,
and the only way that you will be happy,
and feel confident, strong, and in love with your life and yourself is IF you,
Claim your LIFE TODAY.
And claiming your life is more than just just talking about it.
It is actually meaning it at a deep SOUL LEVEL.
And then HONORING that and taking the steps that you are called to take despite everyone else.
Stop Existing & Start Living
“Coaching for grown A*s Believers”
You know you are beautiful.
Just the way that you are.
You are so freakin’ dynamic,
you are a powerhouse of abundance.
You are magnetic.
You are lucky as sh*t.
You are smart.
You are AMAZING.
And yet you doubt yourself.
You listen to what this world tells you,
about it’s fears.
About it’s expectations.
You listen as though those statements need to be your reality.
You listen and you wonder,
what is wrong with you?
Why is it so damn hard to connect with others?
Why do you still feel empty?
And you blame yourself for everything.
You feel responsible for everyone.
Always looking at how you can help more,
be more, give more, sacrifice more.
But it seem’s that no matter how much you give,
you still do not achieve what you want.
ABUNDANCE in all things good.
You taste of these delicacies,
but they are fleeting.
They wrap themselves around you for moments in life,
but life is filled more with overwhelm, suffering,
struggle than all that you want.
WHY? You scream from the top of your lungs to God.
Are you not worthy?
Are you not enough?
Or are you too much for this world?
Perhaps too much for those in your world?
You sit and you think,
you over think.
and you feel yucky about how you are showing up.
About how you are not being all you know that you are.
And you fear loosing your life.
The years pass so quickly.
You watch your children grow and become parents themselves.
You watch your own parents age.
And the clock just keeps ticking.
Life does not change.
Moments come and tease you.
But they only linger for a few breaths.
And then they are gone.
At your core you know this is not right.
At your core you feel that you have missed a turn.
That it should not be this way,
You know that you were built for more.
You know that you were built to share a message,
to impact this world,
to teach your children through your living what life is to be like.
And it is NOT to be about paying bills and building companies for others.
It is not to be lived for the 5 o’clock hour.
Or holidays and weekends.
It is not for masking with drugs, alcohol, addictions and fear.
Life is for LIVING.
How does one thrive?
It’s simple my love.
It’s really freakin’ simple.
You get greedy.
You get selfish.
You become a YES not to this world and all of it’s inhabitants,
but to YOU!
You fall in love with yourself first before you go and try and find someone to fall in love with or to love you.
You get present and stop living in your past,
pulling it forward and recreating it for today.
You stop worrying about the future,
and get happy about your now.
Because your now is your future of yesterday.
Fill yourself up BABY.
Don’t wait to be filled.
Don’t wait for someone else to save you.
You don’t need saved.
You just need to open yourself up to your joy.
That thing that you have been hiding from all the while trying to be responsible and pay your bills and fit into the social norm.
I can tell you this love,
those who are focused on fitting into the social norm,
will never find all that you are looking for,
all that they are wanting.
No they will not.
They will only find more of everyone else’s troubles, ‘fears, judgments and hold themselves in the norm of surviving, but never THRIVING.
you want it all.
Your soul wants you to have it.
God will support you.
And all you have to do….
Is CLAIM YOUR LIFE NOW.
SO what are you waiting for?
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Who will you be in 2019?
Here is the question that my mentor asked me recently.
At first when I heard it I wanted to jump to the answer.
I wanted to confidently state all my dreams and goals as though they were already.
But as I sat with this question,
truly sat with it and allowed it to settle into every cell of my being I could feel great emotion bubbling up with it.
I could feel myself not simply wanting to state with confidence my dreams and goals,
No, I wanted far more than this.
I wanted to truly feel myself expand.
And I was already being gifted this beautiful idea of expansion in being asked,
Who will you be in 2019?
And here is what I came up with.
I will be a woman on fire,
on fire for her life.
I will be a mother,
present, in love and compassion,
showing my children how to live fully,
and how to fly.
I will be a lover,
learning what I truly want for this next season of my intimacy. Committing to my true heart and core.
I will be a thought leader,
helping those who feel aligned to me to expand who they are and tap into the f-ck yes life they deserve.
I will be the soul crusader that I have always known that I am.
Never allowing for settling,
willing to rock the boat,
to stand in the face of that which is uncomfortable and THRIVE.
I will be a content creation magician,
open to my aligned intuitive desires and letting them unfold in ease.
I will be SOUL ALIGNED,
I will be ONLY a F-ck YES to myself,
at all cost.
I will live from a place of ease, grace, gratitude and joy.
I will be vulnerable, open and turned on.
I will be SOULFUL.
I will be magnetic.
I will be AUTHENTIC.
I will be deliberate.
I will be a mother f-cking bad a*s!!!!!
I will be a Rock Star in my business and in my life!
The truth is love,
my goal is to make 2019 a year that I am so effing proud of that I cannot help but brag about.
And what is wrong with that?
I know that some people cringe at the words,
brag and proud or pride.
I know that it may sound cocky to say that this is my desire, to be a F-ck YES! only to myself.
I know that to some,
who I aim to be for 2019 is not desirable,
and the thing is that I don’t really effing care.
And neither should you love.
because who you are.
Who you want to be.
Who your soul is screaming at you to get into alignment to becoming,
is most likely not going to please the majority of people.
And the sooner that you get right with this fact.
The sooner you realize that when you firmly,
confidently and unapologetically step into your true self,
that the majority of the world will not approve.
And the reason,
although it does not ultimately matter,
I will share with you for clarity and understanding.
The reason so many will hate on you.
The reason so many will mock and point,
will show their cruelness and even shun you.
Is because your light will be so F-CKING BRIGHT that it will reveal to them all that they are hiding from and do not have the courage to become.
Yes my love,
the more you SHINE,
the more the haters will make themselves known.
The more the darkness will try and take you down.
The average and ordinary,
never like the ones who CHOOSE to LIVE UNBOUND.
The ones who choose to be free,
to be turned on,
and in SOUL ALIGNMENT.
SO know this my love,
know that as you answer this question for yourself,
that the only right answer,
is the one that makes you squirm,
makes your feel as though you are hanging on the edge of cliff and taking in all the beauty.
It is the one that makes you shudder,
not from fear but from the thrill,
the thrill that you are FINALLY being a F-ck YES! to yourself.
Ignore all those naysayers.
Ignore all their threats.
Ignore all that they may throw at you,
and walk forward into this year.
This year of your GREATNESS.
This year where you make yourself proud.
Let your LIGHT be seen brightly.
Let your SMILE beam in joy.
Let your LAUGHTER shake fear into their walls of misery,
as you BRAG in GRATITUDE
of this F-ck YES! Year.
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We create our own misery.
We manifest our nightmares.
We are truly our own worst enemy.
Look back at the things that have come into your life.
Really look at the sh*t that has happened.
Can you see how you called it into existence?
If you are average and ordinary then you will answer this with a big fat NO!
If you are part of the 1% of the population that is awakened, conscious and willing to be responsible for their lives, then you will say YES.
Either way you answer, the truth is still the same.
We create our own misery.
So why am I speaking about this today?
You see over the last few days of this New Year,
I have come into contact with a massive awareness circling around me about this.
It stems from our lack of worth.
It stems from our hidden expectations.
It stems from our fears.
And let me tell you,
these three things can sabotage your whole life and all that you desire and that God wants to bestow on you.
Don’t you get it love?
Don’t you see how you are creating all of this sh*t because you are insisting on keeping your focus on what you do not have.
You are sitting there, actively looking for the evidence of something to appear,
and in doing this what you are ACTUALLY doing is focusing on the VOID of not having it yet.
So no duh, that it is not manifesting for you.
How can it after all when all you do is look at how it is not there.
you want to argue this.
I sure as f-ck try arguing it as well,
all the time.
the facts are just that FACTS.
And what you are doing is NOT looking at the positive,
no you are looking at the not having because you are looking at where you want it to manifest,
how you want it to manifest,
in the time that you want it to manifest,
and you are looking dead center into the void of it NOT manifesting yet.
You are waiting for it to happen.
You sent out your intentions.
You have been doing the internal work.
You have journaled, meditated, prayed, talking it up, stayed positive, witnessed your ego yelping at you and backed away from anyone who tried to steal your thunder.
But what you have NOT yet done it just CLAIM IT.
Yes JUST CLAIM IT BABY.
You f-cking deserve to have it,
and it is already manifested.
The problem is that you have decided to step into some hide and seek manifesting game with it.
You have decided to WAIT for it to come instead of just living as though it already is.
So this AMAZINGNESS that is there for you has no effing choice but to wait for you to come find it.
It cannot come to you,
it can not manifest yet,
because you are not ready.
You are not even getting ready to be ready for it.
And that sucks.
Because everything you want is having to wait to be received.
And all you have to do love is STOP looking for it.
Stop examining how it is not yet there,
how it will happen when you do this or this or that,
stop looking down the mother f-cking road.
And JUST ACCEPT that it already is,
and guess what?
This means that you have to STOP talking about it as though you are waiting for it as well,
you have to stop yourself from feeling as though you do not have it yet,
and instead focus on feeling effing amazing RIGHT NOW.
All this good sh*t will manifest AS SOON AS YOU TAKE YOUR EYE and CONSCIOUSNESS OFF OF IT.
Just like a pot being watched.
And you know what the saying is there right?
” A watched pot never boils.”
Well it will boil,
but it will be SOMEDAY,
and it don’t have to be that way baby.
It can boil right now.
You gotta just let it.
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Never pray for patience because you will be given every opportunity to learn patience.
Man, I sure understand this.
And have never prayed for patience because of that very statement that someone said as kid and I got even then.
Now, I have also been told repeatedly that I must be one of the most patient people.
It is assumed that I am.
And I am in many cases.
However, I do not think it is always patience at work.
I think that it is understanding and compassion at work more than patience.
Although they help me to have patience.
And I am sure that the same is true for you.
When we can understand where someone is coming from and why things are happening then we are more likely to have patience for them or the situation to change and do what “should” be happening.
And that is all wonderful and all,
but today’s share is not on how important patience is in these instances.
Today I want to share another side to patience.
Because everything has two sides,
two personalities you could say and patience is no different.
The flip side of patience,
is that patience is BULLSH*T!
You may be wondering why I am saying this or how I could even make such a statement,
and don’t you fret,
I am going to be sharing my take on this flipped other side of patience.
First I want you to feel into the statement,
“I am waiting on the right time.”
Yes feel that.
I know that you just like myself have said this so many times before.
You may even be saying it about something right now in your life.
Something that keeps nudging at you and has you wavering.
Has you going, ” Man I wish, I had the money, the time, the support, the education, the blah…blah…blah… to go forward on that.”
You may be saying, ” I am just waiting on when my kids are grown, when my body is in this shape, when I have enough money saved up, etc.”
Yes here is bullsh*t patience for you.
Here is where I am calling you out in pointing the blame of not doing what you need to do, what you actually feel called to do on patience.
And I am going to tell you the effing truth about this flip side of patience.
The truth is that the reason you are sitting there,
oh so patient and happy about building your muscles and getting your lessons, just WAITING FOR THE PERFECT TIME,
waiting for thing sto line up and somehow magically call to you that the time is NOW.
YOU ARE NOT IN ALIGNMENT.
It is not patience that has you in some holding pattern.
It is lack of alignment.
And the f-cking lack of alignment comes from your fear based scarcity thinking.
From you still believing that you need to wait.
That you need to do something to be worthy of,
or have sacrificed enough of to have what you want.
Your lack of alignment comes from the reality that you are focused on your problems and trying to fix them from a low vibe view,
instead of just letting the f-ck go and getting into alignment and letting them get fixed.
And so you tell yourself,
I just need to be patient and this too shall pass.
It soothes you to think that you are doing what is right, huh?
It soothes you to buy into this bullsh*t lie that you are telling yourself,
that you must suffer and sacrifice just a bit more,
and then alignment will naturally occur for you and all will be right again.
Well, here is one of my famous news flashes.
No amount of unalignment will ever bring you back around to alignment.
Yet, there you sit,
believing that it will.
WTF! Are you doing?
You want to get into alignment?
You want to have blessing abound?
You want the F-ck Yes! Life?
You want to be a conscious creator of your world?
Then get conscious about the fact that while you sit there with all your patience, that you are nothing more than out of alignment.
And the ONLY way to get the F-ck back into alignment is to stop being so damn patient and get moving.
Stop making excuses.
Stop accepting so little for your life.
Stop thinking you are not worthy,
that you have to sacrifice.
That you have to WAIT.
Your alignment can happen RIGHT NOW.
You are in charge,
in control of it.
And when you are aligned,
the RIGHT TIME is all the time.
It’s call flow baby.
ANd it can be all yours.
Thoughts to feelings,
feelings to actions.
What you focus on grows,
so put your focus on what you want.
And as always,
Stop Existing & Start Living
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Am I vibing with you?
I sure hope I am.
Or maybe I hope I am not.
It really depends on where you are vibing at.And I say this, because we often do not pay attention to our vibe, let alone other people’s vibe.
But I can tell you this. VIBE is where it is at baby!
If you want to have that F-ck Yes Life, If you want to call in THE ONE, If you want to have blessings wash all over you, then you better be vibing in the same frequency as them. The things we desire the most are often high hanging fruit, and this high hanging fruit will not come down to us.
And if it does…..
Then it has lowered its VIBE.And you most likely won’t want it so much anymore.
This happens in relationship all the time.
We humans have the power to increase or decrease our vibe in no time flat.
It all stems from the thoughts we are thinking, the emotions we are feeling, and thus the actions we are taking.
High vibing people, you know the one’s…
You may even be one of the one’s.
And I hope that you are luv.But either way, you may want to know how to determine if someone is high vibe or low vibe.
High Vibe peep’s are radiant,
they are turned on to life,
they are self-motivated,
they do not mask life or the experiences that life offers them.
They are not living in a victim mentality.
They are proactive.
They love forward movement,
They value alone time.
They know that more is always possible.
They see the interconnectedness of things.
They are grateful.
They are grounded.
They bounce out of negative thinking quickly.
They smile – A LOT!
They are easy to be around.
They have healthy, strong boundaries.
They don’t give a sh*t what you think of them.
They are abundant.
Blessings flow to them with ease.
They are not needy, but they do desire much.
They are in integrity with self.
High VIBE is where it is at baby!
Living a high VIBE life is what you were born to do.
It is where you will discover everything that you want the most.
And you can get there.This you can.
But you are not going to get there, if you are still trying to get your needs met by everyone else who is low vibing it.
You won’t get there if you are caught in worry, or anxiety and fear.
You won’t get there if you are giving to many f-cks about everyone else’s opinions and judgements.
You won’t get there if you insist on hanging with low vibing friends, family and lovers.
And this can cause some mighty BIG issues in life, the main one being that you MUST realize that many of the people you have in your life RIGHT NOW,
won’t follow you up in VIBE.
And you will loose these people in some fashion.
So that alone may stop you.
You may not want to loose this person, or that one.
You may say it’s not worth it.
You may think I am wrong and try and drag their sweet ass along.
And you can for a bit, although the dragging of dead weight will certainly drain you at some point,
and then you will either drop them, or surrender to creeping back down into lower vibe, where life was…..
Where you were not happy.
And you may say that it is worth it.
As long as you can keep these peep’s in your life, then it is worth it to be low VIBE.
And that is fine.
That is your choice.
And you will make this choice many, many multiple times throughout your life.
Just know though, that if you want to have that F-ck Yes! Lifestyle, you want abundance, deep love, and happiness.
That you will have to make changes in whom you choose to hang around.
Because the saying is so true,
“You become like those you hang around.”
So if you look at your top five people in your life, how are they VIBING?
And if we look just at the income of these five…how abundant are they?
You want to know where you are headed in the next 12 months.You will be about 50-70% of the median of these five in total.
Is that satisfactory to you?Then great.
Time to change your VIBE TRIBE.
We all have to level up our relationships as we grow, some come back around as they grow with us in vibe, some we revisit and feel the constriction in our bodies.
While others are lost forever.
And still others Climb beside us.
What does your VIBE TRIBE say about you?
As always, Stop Existing & Start Living
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And As Always,
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YOU MOST CERTAINLY DO NOT have to PROVE your worthiness.
Just ACCEPT it.
And as always,
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