I have been just loving this Netflix series and a person like myself that never really sits down to watch television of any sort. It’s perfect to find a series that is a few seasons in so I can binge watch it at points in my life when I am in the groove to do just that.
And that is what I have been doing in the evenings a few nights a week over the last month.
So I am on Season 3 of Ozark,
and don’t worry all you peep’s who are on previous seasons,
I am not going to spoil anything for you in this share today.
But this season for sure does some twists and turns and leaves you going, “well that is about time” at points and then has you saying, “OMFG! did that just happen?” at other points.
The other night though, Wendy the main female lead for Ozark was putting on an event for this politician. As they were walking around the event site discussing things they end up in a conversation about what people want from a leader, and Wendy with her background in politics says to this man, “If you don’t have courage you are f-cked!”
This man’s face was questioning and curious to her statement, and she goes on to explain simply to him that the people want to see and will only follow and respect someone who has the balls to stand out there and speak up.
Which made me think about the truth of this statement.
And what it means to you and me,
the common folk (lol… I am far from f-cking common…and I hope that you are too.)
To be courageous in life.
To be courageous in our desires.
To be courageous in our relationships,
and with our health and well-being.
To be courageous in our work,
in our play,
in our spiritual paths.
Courageous equates to this simple truth,
Fortune or even better Well-Being and Abundance of all things wanted for favors the BOLD.
AKA – COURAGEOUS.
SO what Wendy in Ozark stated is true for any of us,
if we wanat for a life that manifests our dreams,
that provides us with the love and money,
the health and purpose,
the connection and respect,
the fulfillment that we want for,
then we must be couragous or we are f-cked.
In not being courageous we sacrifice EVERYTHING.
We turn it over to the luck of the draw you could say and our draw will remain of unsatisfactory measures because we are throwing our hands up and being a victim to the world instead of boldly standing in our dream, in our passion, in our truth.
People come to me all the time,
and even just this last few days in my dozen or so client appointment that I did 1:1 with beautiful peep’s,
I was presented the common statement of,
” I just can’t stop thinking this way.”
” I am just stuck right here and I don’t know what to do.”
“Everything I try doing does not work.”
“You said just turn my attention to something that feels better and that only works for a few moments then I am right back to the crazy, crazy in my head where I am caught in a negative loop.”
Well, my soul response to these statements,
these beliefs that are being verbalized is simple,
“It takes f-cking courage to catch yourself and to stay the course of loving yourself enough to see when you are down this rabbit hole and know that there is not a damn thing that you can do about it because you have built too much momentum around it.
It takes courage to see this truth, to take responsibility for it and love yourself out of it by dropping that ball of momentum and focusing in on something that feels totally off topic and silly,
even meaningless, but has no negative charge to it. Is easy. and then apply playful focus to this meaningless thought that actually feels good.
It takes courage to do this.
Because it goes against everything that we have been taught in our human experience by those who we love and respect, who have our best interest in heart and who have lived more than us. It takes courage to go against the concept that we have to dig more into an issue to resolve it and change it.
But when you truly think about it it’s crazy to keep adding more attention to that, that we do not desire to manifest. Focusing in on it will only guarantee our failure, or the same results that we have been getting and will only assure us more negative feelings and fear. It will only solidify the evidence against us.
You can not fix a problem as long as you are part of it.
You can not change negative thoughts and feelings that have a ton of momentum as long as you remain in them,
being in the middle of the thought and trying to think yourself out of it from that space of negativity and focus on the subject that you have resistance, thus pain wrapped up around will NEVER,
I mean never get you what you want.
You will never change your stinking thinking this way.
You will only expand and grow in it to create more of it and bounce around from negative thought to negative thought with a split second of relief here and there, only to give it back up again to what you are comfortable in,
So if you are wanting to change your physical, mental and emotional experiences in your life to something that feels more fulfilling, loving, connective, joyful and abundant than you have to be courageous enough to catch yourself in your crap and then courageous enough to to drop it where it is and just except that that though path is going to run a muck, but you don’t have to keep playing with it, you don’t have to keep it active. And your best bet is to find something that is almost meaningless to play with, but is easy to think good about, to feel good about.
Create momentum around that and watch the other fizzle out.
It’s a bold move love.
It’s going to require you to step away from the comfort of chaos and drama,
away from your normal feelings,
away from what you perceive as your truth,
and to instead stand in courage and do what is right for you.
And when you do this consistently the rewards will be phenomenal.
Your life picture will change,
your path will expand and your dreams will start to emerge before your eyes like magic.
What you want for, wants you too.
But you have to have the courage to level up yourself and your life to manifest it with ease.
You are so worthy of this and more.
Have courage today to soothe yourself instead of beat yourself.
In love to you always.
And As Always,
Stop Existing & Start Living
“Coaching for Grown A*s Believers”
You were born worthy of so much more than what you are allowing right now.
It is time that you say YES to you.
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