“CBD lovin’, anti-vaxxing, interracial family, sexually open and confident, slutty AF some may say, freedom focused, excepting of all.”
THIS is my lifestyle tagline.
THIS is my family tagline.
THIS is my belief’s tagline.
And why would this be my tag line?
Because I believe in freedom of speach, love, sex, religion,choices in life and believe that no matter who you are, ( race, religion, polical views, sex, sexual preferences, economic standing or other) that WE ARE ALL WORTHY.
Worthy of what you may ask?
Worthy of living.
Not just existing.
Worthy of all the things stated above.
Worthy of having our own opinions.
Worthy of not being shamed or stoned by others ideas, judgements, opinions or fears.
Worthy of just being us.
Many disagree with me on many topics.
And the thing that comes through the most in the conversations and debates is a desire to shush me.
To the point that recently I was multiple times told that I was a bad citizen for my views, that I was not compassionate and did not care for others, that I was a horrible human being, that I should shut up, and that if I get sick to not waste the medical systems time but to just die at home.
All of these statements came because of a disagreement in ideas and beliefs.
Differences of views.
All of these stones thrown had the strong feeling of wanting to shame, control and silence what did not align to their beliefs and views of current.
And as I read through comments of over a hundred plus,
I found myself sitting in gratitude for these individuals’ truth shares.
I am not a person that has an issue with seeing things differently then the masses,
differently then my lover, my child or my friend.
And I know that my views on life are a far cry from average and ordinary.
And it is beautiful to me that we humans are so diverse in our desires, our feelings and beliefs.
It’s what makes us each so unique.
But typically we deeply fear what is not like us.
What is not common or what we perceive as normal.
Our fear makes us want to eradicate whatever is not perceived the same as us.
And this has been our human nature forever.
The reason I do not lay claim to a religion is because religion is a prime example of this belief structure that there is ONLY ONE WAY.
I believe that we are all truly children of God no matter our race, belief, sex or preferences.
I believe that the creator moves through us all.
And that our differences are revealing how diverse God truly is.
I believe that “made in his image” does not refer to our race, sex or other but is actaully speaking of the energy, the life and consciousness, the love that resides in all of us.
I believe that we are each here to learn from one another and that one of our biggest life lessons is to learn to love our differences.
The only way that we can ever do this though is to learn to love ourselves at a deep level first.
To strip ourselves from this concept that we are here to please others ideas, views or beliefs about us.
Self-love comes from seeing our light and darkness and making peace with them both.
Self- love comes from knowing our own value.
Self- love comes from respecting ourselves enough to not sway to the worlds ideas and perceptions, nor to just give up ourselves because we make another uncomfortable with our views and beliefs.
Self- love is mandatory if we are to ever have true unconditional love for any other human as well.
And compassion can only come when we have it for ourselves first.
Same for any positive characteristic that we value such as respect or understanding.
If we believe that we are responsible for everyone elses everything and they for our feelings, fears and hopes then all we are showing is our lack of clarity within who we are.
To have understanding,
we need to listen,
we need to inquire,
we need to learn to breathe and not be so reactive,
jumping to conclusions.
We need to realize that this person that we want to have understand us,
desires the same.
The majority of our fights in our world and in our own homes comes about because we suck at communication skills.
And the ones listed above are the highlighted ones that need attention from all of us.
The radical conversations that are traveling around the world right now are just highlighting the true poison that resides within each of our lives.
It is fear.
And it is fear of differences more than anything else.
And so we run around pointing fingers and laying blame on everyone who thinks differently or looks differently proclaiming that we love unconditionally, stating that we are wanting peace, freedom, well being for all but continuing the blame game as we spew out our hatred and lack of toleration or desire to understand our fellow human beings.
All the while believing that we love ourselves and that is why we are fighting and hating.
When we speak such poison as some of the things I have heard the last few weeks it saddens my soul at how many people truly are lost within themselves and hold so much anger and hatred.
When we can get to a point where we can agree to disagree and still love our fellow human despite the difference,
then we will be in a place where we can heal and make true change in our world as well as in our communities and home.
But this will only happen when we can learn to love ourselves deeply. To look within ourselves and love all our flaws, all our sins, all our wounds as well as our beauty.
we will remain lost and hateful.
To all our beautiful differences.
Be the change, start loving unconditionally today, ‘starting with yourself.
Stop Existing & Start Living
“Coaching for Grown A*s Believers”
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It’s a THING.
And it’s a thing that you gotta get some of if you want to have the life that you claim that you want.
We have been raised to have shame over loving ourselves.
We have been raised to believe that it is wrong or even bad to think highly of ourselves,
or to brag.
And it is “selfish” ( meaning bad) to ask for what we want, need or desire.
But instead the correct path to happiness is to look like this so we have been raised to believe…
Talk like shit about yourself,
hate on your body,
on your thoughts,
in your life.
Be SUPER effing critical about everything and never admit to your glory.
Downplay everything good and hype up everything that is not perfect in your life.
Make sure that you are NEVER offending everyone else,
yes you are responsible for everyone else’s feelings, ideas, perceptions, thoughts and actions,
so make sure to never mess up or have an opinion that does not match whomever you are with.
Put others before yourself at all costs.
Exhaust yourself and keep giving,
but don’t bitch that you are at your breaking point.
Suck it up.
Don’t show your emotions,
any of them but “blase.”
Indifference is the best path,
even if it’s not true.
hide because it is too effing much for the world around you.
And know that you are most likely at fault for the crap no matter what,
and if it’s not you then feel offended instantly,
if anyone says different or God forbid
goes against all of these rules of how to live a happy successful life.
And just be happy with it already,
‘cus this baby is what life is all about.
This is living the dream.
This is success.
F-cking crazy as all hell is’nt it?
I mean when I write it out like that,
unless you are blind, dumb and stupid,
then you have to admit that anyone who actually thinks or feels this way is NEVER going to be thriving,
going to experience success or empowerment,
never going to feel confident.
Most likely only be used and hurt frequently,
will have a crappy backbone,
will not know themselves or anyone else for that matter,
and will simply not ever touch happiness.
So what is the answer?
Get a f-cking THRONE-TOOD!
There I said it.
It is high time that you started to value yourself.
Claiming your life, ‘calling in your blessings,
being a conscious co-creator,
manifesting a life that is full of wonder, love and success,
REQUIRES YOU TO PUT YOUR CROWN ON.
As long as you keep disrespecting God’s glory and power and not allowing his power and will to move through your life,
then you will keep falling prey to this stinking thinking love.
As long as you keep believing that God wants you to walk looking down at the ground,
tripping in misery over all that you have lost and ignoring the joy that your life could be,
then you will never feel the wonder of walking with you head held high,
your eyes meeting others in unconditional love and acceptance,
or the witnessing of the miracles that happen daily,
IN YOUR LIFE.
As long as you keep being available for scarcity,
and never picking up that crown that God has handed you,
then you will continue to suffer by your own hand.
And you will forever remain a slave to the enemy known as fear.
Oh, beautiful, don’t you see the path that you are too walk.
Can you not feel the call in your soul?
Now in our world we need more than ever before for you to RISE UP….
But that means that you have to accept that many who choose to remain in darkness and pain will be disgusted by your choice.
They will call you names,
they will hate on you and shame you,
they will want to tear you down in any way they can,
and they will make you doubt your path.
It will require you to have courage,
to love yourself more than you thought possible and to walk in FAITH.
And if you choose to step away from the many who still remain in fear,
if you choose to instead embrace your power,
and the love that the universe/God has for you,
then your life will be one of bliss and glory.
THAT is what we are each to do.
That is how we celebrate life,
Are you ready, love?
Are you ready to finally say F-ck Yes! to yourself and your dreams and stop making excuses and sharing the thousands of reasons as to why you cannot do/be/have?
But instead just step firmly in faith on this path before you that is calling you?
Are you ready to stop giving your power just lip service but acting in faith on it?
I can tell you that many people say they are light workers,
they claim to be abundant,
they proclaim their faith,
and they say they believe in magic and miracles,
they even proudly state that they get manifesting and that they are powerful manifestors….
and they are.
But, if you are struggling,
if you are suffering,
if you are feeling lost, tired and lonely…
Then baby, you are not really claiming your crown.
If you are not happy, (truly)
then you still have not figured it out,
and it YOU that this is written for.
It is you that need to KNOW YOUR WORTH.
It’s time to pick that crown up and have a THRONE-TOOD….
Because the life that you want for DEMANDS IT!
So Get One.
Stop Existing & Start Living
“Coaching for Grown A*s Believers”
Ready to step forward and say yes to your crown love?
Ready to stop being available for suffering, pain and misfortune?
Let’s speak today about no more reasons and excuses,
and get that crown picked up and put where it rightfully goes.
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“I like you pretty good, let’s see where this goes.”
Maybe I have commitment issues some would say,
and I have been told this from past lovers.
They were convinced that because I refused to be labeled,
because I refused to DTR ( define the relationship) that I was not good with commitment.
They could not just accept my looks of love and desire for what they were.
They could not accept the sweet and tender vulnerable moments shared for what they were,
They could not just go with the passion shared and the hours and days or even weeks spent enthralled with each other.
No, they wanted the MF LABEL.
And for some reason, the label is what made everything real.
Not the actual effing relationship that was presenting itself each day, each moment.
No, they could not trust that.
They needed the words spoken,
just how they wanted to hear them too mind you,
for it to actually be real.
Nothing mattered but the label.
And because I am a person who understands what labels are actually about,
I have a really tough time getting down with defining any relationship for that matter.
And here is why.
You see labels and definitions of relationships have NOTHING to do with love or commitment for that matter.
They don’t have anything to do with trust either,
and they are not offering any more security for either party as well.
What they do is allow us to compartmentalize the relationship, cause separation because now we segregate this relationship from the rest of our lives.
Labels allow us to define what the relationship “should” look and feel like. How it “should” play out and what the expectations are within the pretty little box that we have put it into allows for.
Labels are often asked for because one party or both are wanting validation for their existence and level of importance in the relationship.
This validation gives a false sense of security.
Which makes the partners feel safe and believe that NOW since the relationship has been properly defined that neither party will step out of the box that it has been filed in.
And that is what DTR is all about folks.
Validation of self through another, false security and control.
Because with this DTR what we are wanting is the safety ultimately of knowing ( well believing) that our partner is now “OUR PROPERTY” as defined by the label provided.
And of course they are down with abiding by the rules of this definition.
Funny little note, most people just assume that other people’s definitions and rules of the label are exactly what their own are and never stop to discuss these important things with the person that they are trying to do a relationship with and get a label on.
In my opinion,
(and maybe…. just maybe… I have worked with just a few couples over the last few decades) that one of the major reasons so many couples are not satisfied or in full alignment with their partner is because they miss this vitally important conversation on the front side.
The conversation around, “Why do you do relationships? And what are your needs/desires/expectations within a relationship?”
Can you imagine if we started having these inquiries between ourselves and our lovers?
And what if….
what if our lovers answered authentically.
OMFG! That would be amazing.
But often because so many have limited worth and self- esteem issues,
they find themselves needing to feel safe through the validation of their partner instead and therefore answer accordingly to get the result that they want from their partner instead of being truthful and having a truly intimate conversation around their differences.
All relationships at some point come to a place where the definition sorta just manifests organically.
But it is an energy that a couple will grow into as time and depth in the relationship is established,
not some words stated because partners feel pressure from what they have been told is important to ask for come date three or month six, or whatever the f-ck timeline you are working on.
If you are among the many people out there that feels that need the label to lean and trust more,
or to not have your jealousy anymore,
or to be able to be more vulnerable or intimate with your partner,
and believes that the label is a sign of love,
then you truly need to explore what your definition of love really is about.
And ask yourself if this label is truly what you are wanting or if you are actually requesting to set up agreements with your partner as to what your relationship rules are and are not.
Then ask yourself how this desire to label and set up these tidy little box homes for your relationship to get cramped in is actually serving the relationship or your supposed love for this other person?
What if you became extremely present with your partner and chose to focus on all their good traits each time you were together?
What if instead of fearing them doing something that might destroy the relationship, you chose to commit to look for how well they are showing up in it right now and how much beauty you are enjoying with them right now?
What if you opted to actually practice authentic unconditional love with them and just wanted to enjoy them in all their radiance because your desire for them was to be that person who can hold loving space without a need to contain their soul and own them?
What if you chose to just allow them to be them and you to be you?
What if you choose consciously to come into the relationship each new day as though it was a new relationship that you were excited and appreciative of?
What if you started to define your relationship by saying,
” I like you pretty good, let’s see where this goes.”
Can you imagine how much more depth, love, compassion, witnessing, love, trust, and joy would come through your partner and the relationship?
Or continue on your path,
you know the one.
The one that has you believing that controlling your partner and defining your relationship and owning them as property in any f-cking fashion is LOVE.
And enjoy all the trauma that creates and the broken expectations and pain.
Because that is the result when we attempt to control the human spirit and not allow others to live authentically.
Not to mention,
When we do this it is only supporting our fear and at our core we feel the out of alignment that is caused with God and our soul.
Level Up Your Love Now.
Stop Existing & Start Living
“Coaching for Grown A*s Believers”
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I absolutely HATE being controlled.
I dislike having to seek approval from another to just f-cking be me.
You know what I mean?
How do you feel about that?
Needing validation from another to be/do/have the things in your life that you just want.
That you enjoy.
That makes your life yours.
That make you,
But this is how we live out our lives.
We run around seeking for validation,
which is just another way of saying that we are asking for others permission to live our life,
or to be us.
And that has ALWAYS seemed a bit crazy to me.
10 year old Kendal, did not want to do this.
16 year old Kendal, certainly did not want to do this,
to the point that I found away to get homeschooled when homeschool was not a thing.
20 year old Kendal, figuring out the adulting thing did not enjoy this and quit her job because of this.
34 year old Kendal hated it so much that she left her husband for it.
well yeah… that shiz just don’t fly.
I still hate being controlled,
if you want me to do something,
control me in the opposite and I am sure to move the direction away from the control ( unless I see the manipulation and that is a totally different story),
But in truth what I dislike is not so much the control, but having to do what I don’t want to do.
I do not like having to do things that do not feel good to me for where I am at RIGHT NOW.
If it feels good and in alignment,
THEN SIGN ME THE F-CK UP!
If not then know I will change directions on you so quick your head will spin.
And I have been guilty of this all my life.
I have been called naive,
I have been told that I am flighty and flaky,
that I have commitment issues,
that I am lost.
The reality is far simpler than any of these options,
the truth is, I know, like I have always known that if I am not a F-ck Yes! to it then why do it.
And I change gears based on my authentic yes or no to something.
Sometimes that means that I cancel things.
Sometimes that means that I say I am going to get something done and then I do something else.
Sometimes it means that I have to own where I am at that I simply am no longer in alignment to whatever it was that I had agreed too.
And I get that the world does not like it when people operate on these sort of guidelines that I do.,
I understand that it goes compleletly against what we are taught.
But it works.
And for those of us out there that are self learners and thinkers,
that know beyond a doubt that our feelings and thoughts are what create our reality, that are not average and ordinary,
well guess what?
This is often what you will get.
What is often perceived as:
Because we get that what makes us feel good,
that living according to our souls calling and being fully in alignment to that,
is ALL the F-ck that matters.
We get that being selfish is where it is at.
Because selfishness is not evil,
What is evil is living in fear and scarcity.
That is not of God.
We understand that yes it takes courage to live like this, because the world has not been raised to handle our kind,
the world focused on the sheeple mentality,
the mentality of keeping you in fear and scarcity.
On the concept that you are to put EVERYONE before you and that some effing way THIS will bring you joy, happiness and all your heart desires,
But don’t you ask for anything because that’s wrong.
Think of others ALWAYS first.
Take from self until you have nothing more to give.
Until your vessel is so empty you are lost.
This is what you are here for.
And that is all wrong I tell you.
God does not want you living in fear and scarcity.
God wants you to be wanting.
It is in your wanting that the universe expands and evolves,
it is through you that we all grow.
And if you fall prey to the concept that living your life based on the permission of someone else is what you are to do,
that validating yourself through the ideas, beliefs and desires of another is what you are here for,
to be servant to them and cast yourself aside,
then well baby you are simply wrong.
You can never fill another’s glass from your empty pitcher.
This means you MUST approach life from a more selfish manner and learn how to take care of you.
You say that you want to manifest all this abundance,
the love and connection,
the freedom and opportunities,
you say that you want to be able to make a massive impact on the world,
to touch lives,
to help others heal,
or to lead the people in your life to a happy way of being.
Well then you gotta quit on this concept of living from the permission of others.
You will NEVER know your own worthiness or value if you rely on somelese to tell it to you.
If you are looking for the pat on the head from another to tell you that you are on the right path or doing good,
needing that validation,
then you will forever fall for whatever someone else deems acceptable for your life.
Sad but true.
Cuz’ you see baby,
it’s all up to you loving you enough to stop the crazy concept that you need validated and permission for being you.
You were born worthy luv.
But you gotta accept that.
And it starts with you knowing that by doing all the damn things that you keep doing that you hate,
that makes you feel like shit about yourself,
that makes you fear,
that causes you separation from your truth,
is the culprit to the suffering and void that you feel.
You must start living according to you.
And no one else.
You see when you feel those negative emotions,
those emotions are ONLY there to tell you one MF thing.
YOU ARE NOT IN YOUR TRUTH.
YOU ARE NOT LIVING ACCORDING TO YOUR SOUL.
YOU ARE OUT OF ALIGNMENT WITH GOD.
These are not you and they are not for you,
that is why you are feeling like shit baby.
But you have to start interpreting these emotions correctly in order to navigate yourself the right direction.
You must realize that you are here to want and desire.
You are here to love.
You are here to experience.
You are here to connect.
You are here to share.
You are here to BE YOU.
And if you can get this point, ‘then you join the 0.01% of the world that gets it.
You join those of us who are THRIVING and LIVING as intended.
And if you continue to choose otherwise,
but expect different results,
well let’s just say that, that might be kind of silly, right?
Because as long as you keep doing your stinking thinking and needing someone else to validate your existence for you then you will remain unhappy and lost and most likely not very successful in many subject areas of your life.
And I don’t want that for you.
I believe you are worthy.
That we all are worthy.
And that God wants you to THRIVE.
But you have to believe it too.
And want it.
And have the COURAGE to claim it.
SAY AMEN OR YES IN THE COMMENTS IF YOU WANT TO CLAIM THAT LIFE OF YES FOR YOU NOW.
And As Always,
Stop Existing & Start Living
“Coaching for Grown A*s Believers”
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YOU ARE NEVER CALLED TO DO SOMETHING THAT YOU ARE NOT READY TO DO!
That’s right luv,
I am speaking to you.
You say that you are feeling called to make that change.
You know the change….
That DAMN THING in your life that is NOT “fine.”
That you are not happy with,
that has been causing you remorse for so long,
and you just cannot seem to change it.
You say that you are WILLING and motivated to make the change,
that you know that if you do not do something now then life will just continue to be the same and that you are not good with that.
You say that you are sick and tired of being sick and tired.
That this shiz has got to stop!
But is that true luv?
Let’s be real…..
All this claiming.
All this believing that you are actually wanting it.
All this knowing that now is the effing time.
What do you do?
Make excuses. Want it to be handed to you on a silver plate without you having to actually step the f-ck up and claim it?
Are you being for real right now, luv?
Cuz’ that is sheer crazy thinking.
ANd so what do you believe?
What do you tell yourself?
“It must not be the right time.”
“If it were the right time then everything would just fall into place. I would not have to show up like this for it. I would not have to make that commitment to my calling like that.”
that is nothing but utter bullshiz right there.
The thing sthat you feel the most called too,
will show up for you in the perfect time.
However the perfect time does not mean that you won’t have to show up and commit yourself to them in some fashion that WILL TEST your desire.
Test your courage and your faith.
If you want to move the mountains in your life then you are going to have to do the DAMN THING that you feel challenged by to get them to move,
you are going to have to commit your energy, your time, your money, your focus to them.
And you are going to feel a tug and a push.
You are going to doubt if its possible,
if you can do it or if the time or situation is right.
You are going to question a hell of a lot of things luv.
But those of us who have done the DAMN THING,
we KNOW that if you are feeling called to do something then
IT IS TIME to act on it without reservation or hesitation.
That is your SOUL knocking and guiding you to your desired life and dreams.
It has certainty that you can do it and that the path is set before you.
You may not be able to see it from where you stand right now,
but the path is there and everything that you need to accomplish your dreams,
that f-ck yes life that you want for….
it’s all right there waiting for you to COMMIT yourself to taking that step toward it.
But as long as you choose the reasons and excuses as to why you cannot take that step,
then all you will ever succeed at is having what you have.
So get use to the world that you are living in baby,
cuz’ it won’t change till you take action and commit to making it happen.
To do the damn work.
To step out in faith and lean toward what you are feeling called toward.
This is your moment luv.
You are so worthy of that life,
the success and money,
the health that you desire and feel called toward.
It is there waiting on you to say YES to it.
So what are you going to do?
Say yes to the reasons and excuses or yes to the life that you want?
It’s decision time.
And As Always,
Stop Existing & Start Living
“Coaching for Grown A*s Believers”
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WTF Did you do over the weekend?
Did you live?
Did you THRIVE?
Each day we gain a new opportunity to do just these things.
And each day so many people choose to just get by.
To survive the day.
Does that sound fun to you?
“I am going to survive this day.”
What have you got going on?
So you see luv,
if you desire to live that F-ck Yes Life,
then you have to flip the switch to living it….
cuz surviving your life is never going to happen,
and no moment is ever promised to us.
If you don’t choose to flip that switch to living the life of your dreams,
regardless of what your friends and family say or think,
no matter what is happening in our governments, economy, or what debates are up,
then you will simply NEVER,
let me repeat that for you….
NEVER have the life that you claim that you desire.
Matter of fact you may even find yourself among the many who sit back and dissect and analyze all those who are out there living.
You may discover yourself so far out of alignment with your truth and your worthiness that you get caught up being a judgy, critical and even upset about others lives, person.
About what they choose to do or not to do.
You may discover that you are caught in the drama and chaos of the world that is always around us,
falling prey to its life stealing ways,
believing that, that is what you are to focus on.
Never realizing that it’s sabotaging you from the gift that you were given from God….
YOUR LIFE TO LIVE.
And living is not about just getting through the day and paying your bills,
about appearing to do what is expected,
or about people pleasing to the degree that you have nothing left to give to yourself.
Living is not about you doing anything that someone else deems appropriate or right for you.
Did you get that luv?
Living IS NOT about you doing what someone else “thinks or believes” is right for you.
They are not living your life.
And if you believe that you are here to please and be liked by everyone else,
then you’re simply being silly.
This way of “wantabe living” will only land you in a depression, exhaustion, emptiness, lost, and feeling unworthy, unloved, and broken.
It may feel good to help others,
and don’t get me wrong,
It’s a damn good thing to be compassionate and helpful.
But, if you are being helpful to the point that you have lost your boundaries and value,
then you are not helping anymore.
You cannot help those around you when you yourself are empty.
And the way that you fill yourself is by LIVING.
Is by THRIVING.
The more you do this,
the more you have to give.
The more you can be compassionate and in love with all.
I am a firm believer that the reason there is so much anger, hatred and jealousy in our world,
is because we have been raised to believe that loving ourselves, giving to ourselves, taking care of self first makes us a bad person. However, we crave just that at our core.
And so we hate ourselves.
ANd when we feel this shitty about ourselves we have no space for love for someone else.
We have no tolerance for our differences,
no ability to agree that we can disagree and still remain friends or lovers.
You see it is impossible to see clearly the world around us, when we are not thriving.
Any point outside of thriving, (which BTW is exactly what your life was intended to be about, it’s your set point if you allow it),
Any point other than thriving is you viewing the world from your pain body. From your trauma, your fear, your ego, your need to control, because you cannot fathom letting go of the suffering.
Thriving is a foregin concept to the majority of the world.
To the point that we finger point, try and shame, hate on and dissect those that are doing it. It scares our ego’s.
Because thriving means that you fully accept yourself, love yourself and KNOW WHO YOU ARE. You also, get that you cannot control others, nor should you desire too, that’s not loving….
That you cannot give to the point of exhaustion and crossing your own boundaries.
You understand that the best you,
is the you that loves you.
And that you are not going to be a wonderful person to the majority, simply because you are not doing what they want you to do.
THRIVING my love is about you expanding horizons,
getting to know yourself and falling in love with that amazing soul who looks back at you in the mirror,
NO EFFING matters what anyone else says or thinks about you on this planet.
THRIVING is about you surrendering to your heart,
and enjoying your life to the fullest.
THRIVING is about you accessing your DESIRE and knowing that you can have it,
that what you desire, desires you as well.
THRIVING is about being in alignment to God/Universe.
There are only two kinds of people on this planet….
Those that are in alignment.
Those that are not in alignment.
We are all both of these at times, the true question comes down to where to reside most of your life?
If you have no clue….
look at your world.
Let yourself get real with how you perceive this world,
how you truly feel about it.
Are you in love with your life?
or something other than?
It’s time to JUMP INTO THRIVING.
You are so worthy.
You are so ready.
Make the leap now and claim it for yourself.
The magic is all you baby.
***Side note: This picture was taken yesterday during my first jump, such a thrilling experience that I aim to repeat in the near future 🙂 but the weekend was loaded with adventure, from doing a ghost hunt in an 1845 jail, to exploring deep connection with my lover, staying in VRBO chicken coop, just because it sounded interesting, showering outside under the starry sky and more…No matter your life situation love, you can live an adventure, I know because I have done so. I have had to raise five children on $17k a year, I have been homeless and camped for months pretending that we were just having a summer adventure when in truth I could not afford a roof over our head or food, I have stood over the ER bed of my child who was in a sever accident and wondered if there were a God, I have been diagnosed with painful illnesses, been through miscarriages, years of depression, divorce, rape, physical violence that broke my body, and more…. and you know what? My spirit said, “LETS THRIVE! You are worthy.”
And today, my life is totally different. So different that people dislike and judge me for THRIVING and sharing it.
So much so different, that I think about something and it easily manifests in days. My life is now magical because I get that thriving is who I AM.
And you are too.
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WHAT IF ONE PERCEIVED BAD EGG CHANGED THE WORLD FOR THE BETTER?
Let’s consider this craziness for a second, shall we?
Many years ago, I was studying the ancient spiritual science of kabbalah, it was a powerful tool of deep revelation that I still use daily today and have based much of my works on.
I recall my teacher sharing a tale that went something like this:
“There was a man whose son was dying. He went to the doctor and the doctor told him there was nothing more that could be done for the boy, all he could do was pray. The man being a wise man and understanding the power of the light
(good), decided that there WAS SOMETHING MORE that could be done and he set off that very night to find three men to pray with him.
Now you may think he ventured out to find three holy men, wise and religious men, men who believed and did good daily,
this is not at all what he chose to do.
He went looking for three men who were rugged and lost in their ways, who were considered “bad or evil even.”
And he found them.
to each man he pleased to come sit and pray over his boy,
and somehow he convinced these men who were robbers, rapists and murderers to come and sit by his dying son’s bed and pray with him.
And they did.
All the towns people thought him crazy,
a fearful, sad and desperate man of a dying boy.
They believed that he had totally lost his mind.
The bad men and the father sat that very night by the boy’s bed, they bowed their heads and they focused on their prayers for healing for the boy.
The night grew into day and the men stayed with the father and his son praying.
When the sun rose,
the boy awoke as well from his slumbers of illness.
He stood and he walked about, hugged his father,
he was saved.
The prayer had been answered.
The boy was healed.
He was going to live.
And the men who prayed over him were forever changed as well.”
The moral of this tale that was shared with me some many years ago is simple.
When one, two or even three bad eggs who find it natural to do evil and sin turn toward the light and choose to do good,
no matter the reason in that moment,
they open themselves up to be a humongous vessel of good.
They are a powerful catalyst to change, to healing and growth.
You see for all those who do good in this world,
their ego or darkside is just as large as that brilliant good side that they choose to live in,
and the same is equally true for those who live in their ego or shadow self, the light that can be revealed from them is GREAT.
And when they do so they become a great moment of positive force.
In our recent world times we are witnessing just this.
There is massive destruction happening in one way and there is massive healing and awareness in another.
Due to one man.
Now the message that he has highlighted for not just the USA but the world at this time is a message and awareness that has needed to be brought into the light for centuries.
But if we look at this man who seems to be a catalyst for world change and awareness about racism and violence against color,
we will discover a man that is less than a good doer.
No this man who is changing the world for the better with his life that was taken and his final statement of,
” I can’t breathe.”
He was certainly no Martin Luther King Jr.
He served much time in prison and jail.
He did many very bad things to good people.
And none of this is being spoken of at great length.
And you know what?
Because it’s not about his track record.
It’s about the purpose of his life that is greater than what of us can fully understand in the midst of this chaos and rage.
The message that is being sung around the world today,
it is about him being a catalyst to change,
even though he most likely had no clue about what his life was actually going to do.
His death is SAVING LIVES.
Making changes to our world for the better.
And although his death is wrongful in every way, due to it, our world has hit a tipping point.
God works in mysterious ways they say.
And perhaps this is evidence of one of those ways.
We have a grander purpose then we realize,
no matter our history,
our race, religion, sex, wounds, income or education.
We all have a mission in this game of life,
and if you think that someone died without meaning,
Change is upon us.
Awareness is happening in multiple subject areas of our lives.
And with awareness grows understanding, love, compassion, freedom, connection, humanity.
We as a world GOT THIS.
Amended due to comments shared from readers who misunderstood my intent and words and missed my direct statement.
In ABSOLUTELY NO WAY am I condemning Floyd’s wrongful death nor any other. Nor am I trying to spiritually bypassing anything.
If you choose to read above fully,
You will see clearly that I am saying that it’s awesome that his past is not coming up for debate as much as one might expect it too, considering everything that has been shared about it.
That this matter is NOT about his track record.
I am simply seeing the truth of our world being at a critical point, similar to what we had happening in 1968, where we have in our face the realness that what should no longer be an issue, still is. And that is wrong and sad.
No one should have to fear their day to day lives as I witness so many black Americans doing. Skin color should never be a deciding factor for anything, and police brutality has skyrocketed yet again toward blacks especially
I am also not saying that his purpose was to die to make this happen nor that he chose it. But instead stating that, at least his death is the straw that broke the camel’s back for us in 2020. Positive transformation seems to be coming from his death, and if one is killed or died of unnatural causes then at least let’s see that there can be something positive rise from the wrong doing.
I stand by my statement of awareness is happening.
It is greatly needed.
No human being of any race, sex, belief should live in fear of doing life’s simplest everyday events. Our police are here to serve and protect and although many officers are good, many have lost their way and are not serving and protecting but using their badges in a sick power play on civilians.
It is time for change.
Photo Credit NBC12.com
SO, WHAT HAS PROTESTING ACCOMPLISHED??
Within 10 days of sustained protests:
👉🏾 Minneapolis bans use of choke holds.
👉🏾Charges are upgraded against Officer Chauvin, and his accomplices are arrested and charged.
👉🏾Dallas adopts a “duty to intervene” rule that requires officers to stop other cops who are engaging in inappropriate use of force.
👉🏾New Jersey’s attorney general said the state will update its use-of-force guidelines for the first time in two decades.
👉🏾In Maryland, a bipartisan work group of state lawmakers announced a police reform work group.
👉🏾Los Angeles City Council introduces motion to reduce LAPD’s $1.8 billion operating budget.
👉🏾MBTA in Boston agrees to stop using public buses to transport police officers to protests.
👉🏾Police brutality captured on cameras leads to near-immediate suspensions and firings of officers in several cities (e.g., Buffalo, Ft. Lauderdale).
👉🏾Monuments celebrating confederates are removed in cities in Virginia, Alabama, and other states.
👉🏾Street in front of the White House is renamed “Black Lives Matter Plaza.”
Military forces begin to withdraw from D.C.
Then, there’s all the other stuff that’s hard to measure:
💓The really difficult public and private conversations that are happening about race and privilege.
💓The realizations some white people are coming to about racism and the role of policing in this country.
💓The internal battles exploding within organizations over issues that have been simmering or ignored for a long time. Some organizations will end as a result, others will be forever changed or replaced with something stronger and fairer.
🌎 Protests against racial inequality sparked by the police killing of George Floyd are taking place all over the world.
🌎 Rallies and memorials have been held in cities across Europe, as well as in Mexico, Canada, Brazil, Australia, and New Zealand.
🌎 As the US contends with its second week of protests, issues of racism, police brutality, and oppression have been brought to light across the globe.
🌎 People all over the world understand that their own fights for human rights, for equality and fairness, will become so much more difficult to win if we are going to lose America as the place where ‘I have a dream’ is a real and universal political program,” Wolfgang Ischinger, a former German ambassador to the US, told the New Yorker.
🌎 In France, protesters marched holding signs that said “I can’t breathe” to signify both the words of Floyd, and the last words of Adama Traoré, a 24-year-old black man who was subdued by police officers and gasped the sentence before he died outside Paris in 2016.
🌎 Cities across Europe have come together after the death of George Floyd:
✊🏽 In Amsterdam, an estimated 10,000 people filled the Dam square on Monday, holding signs and shouting popular chants like “Black lives matter,” and “No justice, no peace.”
✊🏽 In Germany, people gathered in multiple locations throughout Berlin to demand justice for Floyd and fight against police brutality.
✊🏾 A mural dedicated to Floyd was also spray-painted on a stretch of wall in Berlin that once divided the German capital during the Cold War.
✊🏿 In Ireland, protesters held a peaceful demonstration outside of Belfast City Hall, and others gathered outside of the US embassy in Dublin.
✊🏿In Italy, protesters gathered and marched with signs that said “Stop killing black people,” “Say his name,” and “We will not be silent.”
✊🏾 In Spain, people gathered to march and hold up signs throughout Barcelona and Madrid.
✊🏾 In Athens, Greece, protesters took to the streets to collectively hold up a sign that read “I can’t breathe.”
✊🏾 In Brussels, protesters were seen sitting in a peaceful demonstration in front of an opera house in the center of the city.
✊🏾In Denmark, protesters were heard chanting “No justice, no peace!” throughout the streets of Copenhagen, while others gathered outside the US embassy.
✊🏾 In Canada, protesters were also grieving for Regis Korchinski-Paquet, a 29-year-old black woman who died on Wednesday after falling from her balcony during a police investigation at her building.
✊🏾 And in New Zealand, roughly 2,000 people marched to the US embassy in Auckland, chanting and carrying signs demanding justice.
💐 Memorials have been built for Floyd around the world, too. In Mexico City, portraits of him were hung outside the US embassy with roses, candles, and signs.
💐 In Poland, candles and flowers were laid out next to photos of Floyd outside the US consulate.
💐 And in Syria, two artists created a mural depicting Floyd in the northwestern town of Binnish, “on a wall destroyed by military planes.”
Before the assassination of George Floyd some of you were able to say whatever the hell you wanted and the world didn’t say anything to you…
THERE HAS BEEN A SHIFT, AN AWAKENING…MANY OF YOU ARE BEING EXPOSED FOR WHO YOU REALLY ARE. #readthatagain
Don’t wake up tomorrow on the wrong side of this issue. Its not to late to SAY,
“maybe I need to look at this from a different perspective.
Maybe I don’t know what its like to be Black in America…
Maybe, just maybe, I have been taught wrong.”
There is still so much work to be done. It’s been a really dark, raw week. This could still end badly. But all we can do is keep doing the work.