Admit It! – You Are F-cking LAZY.

Admit it…
Seriously JUST admit already.
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😲YOU are lazy as F-ck! πŸ›Œ
You know what you need to do.
You feel it in your bones,
you have the know how,
the knowledge,
the ability.
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Your soul calls out to you daily, and YOU HEAR IT. πŸ—£οΈπŸ§˜β€β™€οΈ
But when it comes right down to it,
catching up on the series on Netflix is more appealing.
Watching that football game is more interesting.
Cleaning your mother f-cking toilet is higher on your priority list than doing the thing that you know,
you know without a doubt that you MUST DO,
in order to have the life that you want to have.
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But,
But you are too f-cking lazy to just step the f-ck into who you are meant to be to achieve those dreams and desires.
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You see having that freedom based life,
living according to your souls desire,
in alignment with exactly who you know you were born to be is not difficult.
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Not difficult at all matter a fact.
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The ONLY f-cking thing holding you back from being the person that your soul wants you to be is yourself. πŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒ
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It’s all those things you have been told through your life experience so far.
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Its all those logical, fear based things that you opt to buy into,
because buying into them is what everyone else is doing,
therefore that must make it right.
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Your lazy because…
being part of the norm is more important to you than being authentically you.
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getting along with the crowd is what you “think” will make you happy…
instead of saying F-ck YES to who you are and letting yourself shine.
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Agreeing,
being a people pleaser seems like the best thing to do,
it keeps the peace.
Instead of claiming what you need/want and EXPECT from life.
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But all of this,
does not solve any thing baby.
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All of this only leads you to pain, suffering and not truly living.
Sure there is air in your lungs,
you are breathing still,
your heart is beating,
your body is alive.
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But YOU ARE NOT LIVING!!!!!
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and worst off you know it.
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You know that life could be so much more.
And you want it to be more.
You want more than to just try to escape your pain,
your anxiety,
you want to not have it to start with.
You want happiness!
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And you should.
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It is your birthright after all.
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But happiness only comes from truly living in alignment to to you.
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Happiness only is felt by owning your own joy.
By understanding that you,
YES YOU….
are the one that can make it happen.
AND MUST.
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No pay raise at work will do it.
No bigger better orgasm will do it.
No change of relationship status will do it.
No weight loss or diet will do it.
No my kids are honor role students will do it.
No my retirement fund has so much money it will do it.
Not even the affirment from your pastor that you are saved will do it.
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Nothing.
Absolutely NOTHING,
will bring you the happiness that your heart and soul desire,
that leads you to do everything that you do,
that makes you flip your world upside down,
or keep everything the same,
will make you happy.
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The only thing that will ever bring you happiness…
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Is getting up off your f-cking ass,
and LIVING!
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Yes BABY!!!
this is what you must do to have what you want.
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But wait!πŸ–οΈ
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That’s to easy!
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If it were that simple,
then everyone would be happy.
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RIGHT ⁉️
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Wrong!!!!!
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Because the hardest,
most challenging thing,
that we humans face is just this.
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BE OURSELVES.
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You are far from alone in your desires.
Or in your sufferings.
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You are far from alone from kicking around the concept of just f-cking being yourself.
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πŸ’©Sh*t! It sounds pretty appealing huh? to just be you.πŸ’©
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I bet that if I asked you to write down a list of ten things you value the most that,
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HONESTY
INTEGRITY
AUTHENTICITY
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would rank among some of the highest on your list.
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Yet, you cannot seem to LIVE that way yourself.
And you wonder why life keeps bringing you experiences and people that are NOT these things.
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Hmmmmmm……
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Well here is a thought for you…πŸ€”
Maybe, just maybe,
Life is showing you what you are lacking yourself,
and what you need to get,
in order to have what you want.🀯
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⁉️W-H-A-T!!!!!!⁉️
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Yeppers,
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Like I said….
you are too f-cking lazy!
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It really is that simple.
It really is about you just being you,
loving you.
Enjoying you.
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The truth is that you make it too f-cking hard….
ALL THE TIME!
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And you do it mainly by over thinking it.
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So STOP!!! πŸ›‘
Stop the insanity.
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And just take the path that you were meant to take in the first place…
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still yourself,
listen,
and act from that place….
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πŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ”₯YES! that place of soul.πŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ”₯
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You have always KNOWN what to do!
It has always been with you.
There is no secret.
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It is just about being you!!!!!
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So what is stopping you?
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Oh RIGHT!!!!
I forgot there is new series on that looks really amazing,
gotta catch that first…..
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Well,
don’t bitch to me.
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Cuz’ I will only send you this note baby.
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Don’t you think it is time?
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TIME TO SAY YES.
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Yes to YOU.
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As Always,
Stop Existing & Start Living
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PSπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒ
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You Say You Want The F-ck YES Life Do You?
Well what is stopping you?
I bet it is….
Time.
Money.
Belief you can have it.
Feeling Like You Don’t Know Enough.
Lack of Support.
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Am I correct?
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You want it, but there are so many things that get in the way of you having it.
And another year goes by.
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Another year that you find yourself sinking further into the rut,
into debt and lack of freedom,
another year of wishing,
but not achieving.
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Or you have decided to step forward onto the path,
you went and got your real estate license.
You signed up for a cool new opportunity that turns you on.
You took on the mission to build your own home based business.
Or maybe it’s not you, but your partner. Your spouse.
You are a team.
And you are going to get ahead of life,
enjoy some travel,
enjoy some extra cash flow,
and get your kids into the school you want.
OR
retire early!!!!
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Whatever the reason,
it’s hard to find someone who is simply content,
well maybe content is not the right word even.
HAPPY.
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Happy with their work,
their financial state of being,
their job-family balance,
the time they have,
or
the level of stress they have.
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So many of us are searching for something more fulfilling these days.
So many of us understand that TIME is our most precious resource and it is very limited and we never know when our time will be up once and for all.
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So we hold anxiety around it.
We look at our families,
our lives, our health, our bank accounts,
and we stress.
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Can you say that your’s is all that you want it to be?
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Or do you want more?
Need more?
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Have you decided to FINALLY take your life,
your FINANCIAL PICTURE into your own hands?
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What have you ventured out to do?
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Entrepreneur you deserve the F-ck YES Life!
But how do you go from where you are,
to where you want,
and it not take you 2 years, 5 years, a decade or more?
How can you avoid some of the major pitfalls that can eat an entrepreneur up?
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As the mama of seven babies, an entrepreneur myself for the last 20 years, who has done my fair share of failing, I can tell you it can be REALLY difficult to know what to do and when to do it, or it can be pretty effing simple.
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If I had had accessible the mentor’s back in the day that I do now, I would have not spent so many years struggling. But the struggle taught me a ton and has enabled me to be able to share with you what it really takes in today’s social media world to become your own BOSS.
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And do it BIG!!!!
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Join me next Sunday November 18th, 2018
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2 Replies to “Admit It! – You Are F-cking LAZY.”

  1. I love to read your articles, Kendal. I do. I also have to say that this particular one, though it holds a lot of truth in it, for me feels like I am being lectured to, and scolded. I know this because of how it feels in my body. I immediately feel defensive, and like I need to explain and justify myself. I know I am not lazy. I am co-creating and manifesting even as we speak. Hiring you as my coach and doing your workshops(the ones that speak to me), are one of the things I am manifesting. I am not “resting on my laurels.” I am trusting my process. Right after we had our consultation, some big financial things came up to be dealt with. They say be careful what you pray for, because everything unlike it shows up. This has been a great teacher. I am cleaning up wreckage from the past, and becoming the best financial steward I know how to be.

  2. Namaste’ Lainey,
    Thank you so much for sharing authentically here. I can see how this post may hit like a lecture to some, that is what an asskickery can be and do for sure. I know when my mentor writes some of her stuff I feel that way too. And it makes my stomach sink, my gut twinge and my heart feel not so good. I want to retreat. I want to fight. I want to be understood and to explain myself in these times. However, it is these very moments that I meet my fears. I meet my ego. I meet the patterns that hold me. And I realize my truth at a deeper level.
    All of those things that are said are only mine if I practice them as mine.
    And it is still in only my hands.
    My message here, is that our laziness, in most often avoidance of the self.
    Nothing more.
    We all do it.
    It is human and a daily focus to not.
    I know from our conversations and shares that you are working hard on the internal work,
    and that Lainey, is far from lazy.
    No need ever to explain anything.
    You are beautiful.
    You are loved.
    You are powerful.
    Blessings as always to you.

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